You gotta have a culture.. I grew up on hiphop culture mostly growing up in Brooklyn. Hip Hop culture and those who are inspired by it/grew up on it creates more cool people/players than any other culture.. That's because hip hop culture is all about being cool, tough, being a player and being baller (having alot of money). It's also the culture that started all this redpill sht, and one of the first cultures to tout the words *****.es, hoes, and taught men to spin/play women. Ofc I also listened to other stuff growing up, rock, alternative, house music, edm, reggae, big band, you name it. With culture comes slang, it comes a style of dressing, a demeanor and attitude.. these are all things that form a personality.
You also gotta have influences.. SOme of my influences were dudes who were players.. when I was in highschool, Jersey Shore was first popular.. it was a group of alpha males who worked out, got fly and hit the clubs every weekend and smashed diff chicks.. It was the first time ever that we seen this on TV, and it had a huge impact on people at the time. It was also a reality show, while most other stuff is scripted didnt have the same affect. I remember feeling and being alot similar to Pauly D.. Like we both spent alot of time working on our hair, making sure we always looked good.. always got alot of ladies. I even have a similar stature to him/facial structure and personality.
The reality of the coolest people in the world, and dudes who usually get alot of pu55y is that, they all have influences and rolemodels who they achieve to be like.. who they mimic, etc. We often see people and htink "man that dude is cooll" not knowing hes actually mimicking and modeling himself after someone else who was an influence to him... ALot of people aim to be like their fathers, but they also have some celebrity influence/ whether an artist/rapper/musician/actor/comedian/someone in their circle, older brother, older cousins, someone from their childhood or their neighborhood or their school.