"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Drinkin - good or bad?

Ratman

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Seen something like this in the bible but couldnt find it again, sorry to ask.

On the weekend theres always someones house to go to and its much more of a laugh if we are all drunk. Is this viewed as a bad thing by a girl.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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jonny football hero

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Read Sammo's post "don't you want to be somebody?"
 

TyTe`EyEs

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Drinking = good

Getting Sloppy = making an a$$ of yourself and getting you're a$$ kicked if you fight.

Then again, I get sloppy every weekend.
 

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Drinking is good if you aren't a tweak and can hold your liqour (i.e. not being an idiot).
 

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It all depends. I personally don't mind drunk girls at all but I know some guys who do. I gave up drinking because drunk people in general act like idiots though.

You should make your own choices. Just like with everything about a guy girls will vary in their preferences.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I only drink if:

1) I'm definately not the only one drinking (i.e. party scenario)

2) Other people are already drunk and they start to piss me off with their prattle. Generally gets me calm enough to see their points of view and chill out.

On the whole...Yes, drinking is good. Yes, alcoholism is bad. Moderation is key, people.
 

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drink if YOU want to and if YOU think it's alright.
 

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I think getting tipsy is a good idea... enough to feel the effects but be in control. I only ever get volumed when it's a special occasion and everyone else is doing the same.

Either way, it's your choice.
 

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Drinking if you want to drink isn't always the best idea.

If you're the only one around getting hammered, and rationalize it with "Well, I want to drink," you're going to look like an alcoholic. Drinking is a social thing, and something that actually takes a little practice with before you become a "good" drunk. Ignore that last sentance if you actually enjoy stumbling down stairs and puking your brains out each night.

Obviously you dont need to drink because someone slurrs off "duuude, yous gots'ta take thish shhot wiff me" and you don't want to. It's common sense (or "moderation").

Do it when you want to, but not by yourself.
 

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It's alot easier to have good sex with a clear, sober mind. Pass on the alcohol, not the sexual fortitude.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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triple_ultima

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Originally posted by Glimpseone
Pass on the alcohol, not the sexual fortitude.
I laughed at this. It sounds like something from an after-school special. Good words to live by though.
 
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