"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Drinkin - good or bad?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
Getting Sloppy = making an a$$ of yourself and getting you're a$$ kicked if you fight.
Then again, I get sloppy every weekend.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
You should make your own choices. Just like with everything about a guy girls will vary in their preferences.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
CableLight
Master Don Juan
1) I'm definately not the only one drinking (i.e. party scenario)
2) Other people are already drunk and they start to piss me off with their prattle. Generally gets me calm enough to see their points of view and chill out.
On the whole...Yes, drinking is good. Yes, alcoholism is bad. Moderation is key, people.
DJBen
Master Don Juan
Either way, it's your choice.
CableLight
Master Don Juan
If you're the only one around getting hammered, and rationalize it with "Well, I want to drink," you're going to look like an alcoholic. Drinking is a social thing, and something that actually takes a little practice with before you become a "good" drunk. Ignore that last sentance if you actually enjoy stumbling down stairs and puking your brains out each night.
Obviously you dont need to drink because someone slurrs off "duuude, yous gots'ta take thish shhot wiff me" and you don't want to. It's common sense (or "moderation").
Do it when you want to, but not by yourself.
Glimpseone
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
triple_ultima
Senior Don Juan
I laughed at this. It sounds like something from an after-school special. Good words to live by though.Originally posted by Glimpseone
Pass on the alcohol, not the sexual fortitude.