"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Drinkin - good or bad?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
Getting Sloppy = making an a$$ of yourself and getting you're a$$ kicked if you fight.
Then again, I get sloppy every weekend.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
You should make your own choices. Just like with everything about a guy girls will vary in their preferences.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
CableLight
Master Don Juan
1) I'm definately not the only one drinking (i.e. party scenario)
2) Other people are already drunk and they start to piss me off with their prattle. Generally gets me calm enough to see their points of view and chill out.
On the whole...Yes, drinking is good. Yes, alcoholism is bad. Moderation is key, people.
DJBen
Master Don Juan
Either way, it's your choice.
CableLight
Master Don Juan
If you're the only one around getting hammered, and rationalize it with "Well, I want to drink," you're going to look like an alcoholic. Drinking is a social thing, and something that actually takes a little practice with before you become a "good" drunk. Ignore that last sentance if you actually enjoy stumbling down stairs and puking your brains out each night.
Obviously you dont need to drink because someone slurrs off "duuude, yous gots'ta take thish shhot wiff me" and you don't want to. It's common sense (or "moderation").
Do it when you want to, but not by yourself.
Glimpseone
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
triple_ultima
Senior Don Juan
I laughed at this. It sounds like something from an after-school special. Good words to live by though.Originally posted by Glimpseone
Pass on the alcohol, not the sexual fortitude.