Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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damn i know this is kinda AFC, but ive been having these dreams about being with my GF (i am single and never had a GF before) its like i get this feeling of happiness inside of me, makes me not wanna wake up....i also had a dream of me playing with my daughter(shes about 4 in the dream), we would go to the grocery store and she would pick out her favorite candy at the checkout while holding on to her scooby do doll.... and it gave me the same feeling of happiness but even better , no wife or GF in that dream though, just me and my daughter(i dont have a daughter or wife)

any of you guys ever had dreams like this or am i just weird, im only 21 too.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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does not seem AFC at all. What wrong with having a dream like that? i think that is prolly good if you feel good.

I'll tell you what it means from what you said:

A: Its a sub-concious thoughts that tell you, you are looking for a LTR, and possibly want to settle down and have a family

B: you want a close connection with a female (not necessarely sexual, or dating)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hey man. I have dreams like this too. Not so much with a girlfriend. Maybe...wet dreams about a gf or rather a certain girl lol. but I have dreams about just spending time with people and hangin and feeling happy and not wanting to wake up.

it's normal dude. don't let this DJ stuff get to you too much.:)
 
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Stop dreaming and get into the real world. Dating and relationships is not about this - it's a day to day thing. Remember that.
 
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sh1t, that makes me wanna get a gf!!!

Originally posted by Ken785
damn i know this is kinda AFC, but ive been having these dreams about being with my GF (i am single and never had a GF before) its like i get this feeling of happiness inside of me, makes me not wanna wake up....i also had a dream of me playing with my daughter(shes about 4 in the dream), we would go to the grocery store and she would pick out her favorite candy at the checkout while holding on to her scooby do doll.... and it gave me the same feeling of happiness but even better , no wife or GF in that dream though, just me and my daughter(i dont have a daughter or wife)

any of you guys ever had dreams like this or am i just weird, im only 21 too.
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