"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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damn i know this is kinda AFC, but ive been having these dreams about being with my GF (i am single and never had a GF before) its like i get this feeling of happiness inside of me, makes me not wanna wake up....i also had a dream of me playing with my daughter(shes about 4 in the dream), we would go to the grocery store and she would pick out her favorite candy at the checkout while holding on to her scooby do doll.... and it gave me the same feeling of happiness but even better , no wife or GF in that dream though, just me and my daughter(i dont have a daughter or wife)

any of you guys ever had dreams like this or am i just weird, im only 21 too.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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does not seem AFC at all. What wrong with having a dream like that? i think that is prolly good if you feel good.

I'll tell you what it means from what you said:

A: Its a sub-concious thoughts that tell you, you are looking for a LTR, and possibly want to settle down and have a family

B: you want a close connection with a female (not necessarely sexual, or dating)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hey man. I have dreams like this too. Not so much with a girlfriend. Maybe...wet dreams about a gf or rather a certain girl lol. but I have dreams about just spending time with people and hangin and feeling happy and not wanting to wake up.

it's normal dude. don't let this DJ stuff get to you too much.:)
 
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Stop dreaming and get into the real world. Dating and relationships is not about this - it's a day to day thing. Remember that.
 
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sh1t, that makes me wanna get a gf!!!

Originally posted by Ken785
damn i know this is kinda AFC, but ive been having these dreams about being with my GF (i am single and never had a GF before) its like i get this feeling of happiness inside of me, makes me not wanna wake up....i also had a dream of me playing with my daughter(shes about 4 in the dream), we would go to the grocery store and she would pick out her favorite candy at the checkout while holding on to her scooby do doll.... and it gave me the same feeling of happiness but even better , no wife or GF in that dream though, just me and my daughter(i dont have a daughter or wife)

any of you guys ever had dreams like this or am i just weird, im only 21 too.
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