"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ken785

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damn i know this is kinda AFC, but ive been having these dreams about being with my GF (i am single and never had a GF before) its like i get this feeling of happiness inside of me, makes me not wanna wake up....i also had a dream of me playing with my daughter(shes about 4 in the dream), we would go to the grocery store and she would pick out her favorite candy at the checkout while holding on to her scooby do doll.... and it gave me the same feeling of happiness but even better , no wife or GF in that dream though, just me and my daughter(i dont have a daughter or wife)

any of you guys ever had dreams like this or am i just weird, im only 21 too.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fenderules

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does not seem AFC at all. What wrong with having a dream like that? i think that is prolly good if you feel good.

I'll tell you what it means from what you said:

A: Its a sub-concious thoughts that tell you, you are looking for a LTR, and possibly want to settle down and have a family

B: you want a close connection with a female (not necessarely sexual, or dating)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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hey man. I have dreams like this too. Not so much with a girlfriend. Maybe...wet dreams about a gf or rather a certain girl lol. but I have dreams about just spending time with people and hangin and feeling happy and not wanting to wake up.

it's normal dude. don't let this DJ stuff get to you too much.:)
 

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Stop dreaming and get into the real world. Dating and relationships is not about this - it's a day to day thing. Remember that.
 

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sh1t, that makes me wanna get a gf!!!

Originally posted by Ken785
damn i know this is kinda AFC, but ive been having these dreams about being with my GF (i am single and never had a GF before) its like i get this feeling of happiness inside of me, makes me not wanna wake up....i also had a dream of me playing with my daughter(shes about 4 in the dream), we would go to the grocery store and she would pick out her favorite candy at the checkout while holding on to her scooby do doll.... and it gave me the same feeling of happiness but even better , no wife or GF in that dream though, just me and my daughter(i dont have a daughter or wife)

any of you guys ever had dreams like this or am i just weird, im only 21 too.
 
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