"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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damn i know this is kinda AFC, but ive been having these dreams about being with my GF (i am single and never had a GF before) its like i get this feeling of happiness inside of me, makes me not wanna wake up....i also had a dream of me playing with my daughter(shes about 4 in the dream), we would go to the grocery store and she would pick out her favorite candy at the checkout while holding on to her scooby do doll.... and it gave me the same feeling of happiness but even better , no wife or GF in that dream though, just me and my daughter(i dont have a daughter or wife)

any of you guys ever had dreams like this or am i just weird, im only 21 too.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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does not seem AFC at all. What wrong with having a dream like that? i think that is prolly good if you feel good.

I'll tell you what it means from what you said:

A: Its a sub-concious thoughts that tell you, you are looking for a LTR, and possibly want to settle down and have a family

B: you want a close connection with a female (not necessarely sexual, or dating)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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hey man. I have dreams like this too. Not so much with a girlfriend. Maybe...wet dreams about a gf or rather a certain girl lol. but I have dreams about just spending time with people and hangin and feeling happy and not wanting to wake up.

it's normal dude. don't let this DJ stuff get to you too much.:)
 
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Stop dreaming and get into the real world. Dating and relationships is not about this - it's a day to day thing. Remember that.
 
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sh1t, that makes me wanna get a gf!!!

Originally posted by Ken785
damn i know this is kinda AFC, but ive been having these dreams about being with my GF (i am single and never had a GF before) its like i get this feeling of happiness inside of me, makes me not wanna wake up....i also had a dream of me playing with my daughter(shes about 4 in the dream), we would go to the grocery store and she would pick out her favorite candy at the checkout while holding on to her scooby do doll.... and it gave me the same feeling of happiness but even better , no wife or GF in that dream though, just me and my daughter(i dont have a daughter or wife)

any of you guys ever had dreams like this or am i just weird, im only 21 too.
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