"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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damn i know this is kinda AFC, but ive been having these dreams about being with my GF (i am single and never had a GF before) its like i get this feeling of happiness inside of me, makes me not wanna wake up....i also had a dream of me playing with my daughter(shes about 4 in the dream), we would go to the grocery store and she would pick out her favorite candy at the checkout while holding on to her scooby do doll.... and it gave me the same feeling of happiness but even better , no wife or GF in that dream though, just me and my daughter(i dont have a daughter or wife)

any of you guys ever had dreams like this or am i just weird, im only 21 too.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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does not seem AFC at all. What wrong with having a dream like that? i think that is prolly good if you feel good.

I'll tell you what it means from what you said:

A: Its a sub-concious thoughts that tell you, you are looking for a LTR, and possibly want to settle down and have a family

B: you want a close connection with a female (not necessarely sexual, or dating)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hey man. I have dreams like this too. Not so much with a girlfriend. Maybe...wet dreams about a gf or rather a certain girl lol. but I have dreams about just spending time with people and hangin and feeling happy and not wanting to wake up.

it's normal dude. don't let this DJ stuff get to you too much.:)
 
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Stop dreaming and get into the real world. Dating and relationships is not about this - it's a day to day thing. Remember that.
 
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sh1t, that makes me wanna get a gf!!!

Originally posted by Ken785
damn i know this is kinda AFC, but ive been having these dreams about being with my GF (i am single and never had a GF before) its like i get this feeling of happiness inside of me, makes me not wanna wake up....i also had a dream of me playing with my daughter(shes about 4 in the dream), we would go to the grocery store and she would pick out her favorite candy at the checkout while holding on to her scooby do doll.... and it gave me the same feeling of happiness but even better , no wife or GF in that dream though, just me and my daughter(i dont have a daughter or wife)

any of you guys ever had dreams like this or am i just weird, im only 21 too.
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