Double the age and may possibly have both major strains of herpes.

[dajinn]

Troll thread.

Must be trolling.

 

[Iceberg]

Dude, I'm 32 years old and I barely date women a year or two older than me. So a 22 year old dating someone in her 50's is already ridiculous.

Then you add herpes into the equation. And work. And it's like....the whole situation reeks of desperation.

Without reading all 10 paragraphs, basically the deal is this - you've been courting a woman 30 years older than you for two months. And during that time, there's been nothing physical happening.

This all adds up to - you need to get out more, dude. You're not spinning enough plates. You're not meeting enough women.

I'm sure this lady is nice and all, but at your age, you should be putting yourself in the position for something better. The risk GREATLY outweighs the reward.

 

[dajinn]

Troll

 

[Iceberg]

I spin enough plates, man. I'm just not interested in relationships with anyone that I ever ****.

Well, wait until you find a girl that you **** who you ARE interested in a relationship with.

I mean, what else is there to say?

Looking around this forum, do you seriously think that someone here is gonna tell you, "Hey man, just follow your heart. Date the 50 year old with herpes. She loves you. She needs you."

 

[Bince]

She carries way too many liabilities. Drop the ball before its too late.

 

[Jaylan]

A fifty year old who looks like shes in her 20s?

OP Ive got a bridge to sell you.

 

[LorenzoVonM]

I just want to know, what you guys think about the overall situation she seems to be playing here, what she could be getting at, how you think this would end up for me, and if you guys think that pursuing this makes me irresponsible, if its harmful to my health, or if it just is plain wrong. I really like this woman and could see myself with her. But I like to give things careful consideration before moving forward.

She's got A LOT of BAGGAGE. You have not even scratched the surface. Low self-esteem to start with. All this talking in riddle stuff? A healthy mature 52 year-old woman is gonna get straight to the point even if she does have HSV. Even if you got in a relationship, she knows it will end eventually, and probably not well.

I don't think it makes you irresponsible, I just don't think you have enough experience to see the bigger picture.

Is it harmful to your health? yes. HSV can be transfered and once you have it, you have it for life. The relationship will end. It is inevitable. You know why? For the simple fact that she is 30 years older than you. Say you get HSV, now you will have to inform all future partners about it. Its not life threatening but it does have stigma about it and will probably be a bit stressful.

Is it wrong? I don't judge. Do what you want as long as it doesn't effect me.

 

[sigma335]

OP you've got some major issues with your self if you are even considering anything aside from friendship with this woman, for serious.

 

[dajinn]

OP you've got some major issues with your self if you are even considering anything aside from friendship with this woman, for serious.

Troll

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

I am 22(23 in October)and she is...well, she is 52. But she doesn't look a day over 22.

WTF?

That's where I had to stop reading. I never ask for pics but for some reason I'm a little curious on this one.

Best of luck OP.

 

[Zarky]

I need some very mature and very open minded advice. Stigmas and prejudices probably don't need to apply in here.

So I started a job about two months ago and met a very lovely co-worker...(please don't advise me on the don't **** where you eat either

Nice attempt to control the frame to make sure people only tell you what you want to hear!

But son, we're more advanced than that.

You broke the main rule, don't date co-workers. Now for some reason you have an emotional attachment to some broad who's 2.5x your age and carries at least the herp.

Stop dating co-workers. That's the only advice that is necessary in this situation.

Your question is like me saying, "Hey guys, I'm f*cking this woman with AIDS. Tell me how best to avoid it, but don't tell me to stop f*cking her." That just ain't gonna play here.

 

[expos]

I know you care about her dude...but my god...think of your future here.

Say you get herpes from her and for whatever reason the relationship goes completely sour 2 months later. It's over, you're heartbroken, you've got herpes, and a 21 year old HB9 wants to get with you 3 months later (she could be the woman of your dreams!) but once she finds out you have herpes she runs like the wind.

NOTHING good can come of this. Treat her like a friend if you want her in your life...that is the safest route.

You are SO YOUNG to be dealing with this situation. You are going to ruin your life. Please take our advise.

 

[Iceberg]

Honestly, looking back on his posting history, I'd just have to assume that he's another troll.

Although, damn, you can troll this forum just fine without writing a 10,000 word essay. Can't believe anyone would have time for that.

 

[dajinn]

Not trolling.

 

[Slickster]

Here's how I think it might play out.

You fall in love but your Boss finds out and fires you both. You guys get married. You get genital herpes. In a few years her age catches up with her and she starts looking really old. You lose attraction for her because there are so many other beautiful and fantastic young women around. You cheat on her or breakup for someone younger. Now you have herpes.

Is there any reason why you need to be sexual with this women? It sounds like you are more interested in her as a person. Can't she just be a close friend?

Have you seen her without makeup? Naked? It might change your mind.

 

[spiegel549]

Bro shes fuking 100 years old what are you thinking? HERPES IS FOR LIFE! Its not like gonorrhea, or syphilis where you can take 10 days of pills and its gone. BLISTERING BURSTING OPEN PAINFUL SORES ON YOUR C O C K.

My friend has it. He wants to kill himself when he has outbreaks. Where did he get it from? Some HB9 that he banged in a bar with no condom.

BRO ITS NOT WORTH IT. How do you know she also doesn't have HIV??? Fuking scary to think that.

PULL THE RIP CORD ON THIS ASAP. Bang girls your age, or hey if you like them older go with women in there 30's.

 

[Stagger Lee]

She played hard to get, lead and strung you along, and that's how she got you to catch feelings. This is the oldest tactic in the book for a woman to snag a man, one that a lot of younger girls don't seem to know how or want to use. But in this case, she wasn't really trying to snag you for a LTR because she really wants one with you, someone way too young for such an old woman. She just wants to see if she could do it. I honestly think the old woman is playing you and using you for her ego and to feel better about her insecurities.

Had she went for the sex with you, then you would've been over her probably after the first night. She know this. I can't imagine sex with a post-menopausal woman could be very good. Certainly not as good as a woman in her 20's. the herpes thing makes it case closed because there's no way to protect yourself from it except avoiding sex with a known carrier. Condoms really should come with an extra piece to first cover the area around the penis to block herpes, but I digress.

You should realize the value of still being young and not date anyone over 30. You'll have plenty of time when you're older to date old women.

 

[dajinn]

She played hard to get, lead and strung you along, and that's how she got you to catch feelings. This is the oldest tactic in the book for a woman to snag a man, one that a lot of younger girls don't seem to know how or want to use. But in this case, she wasn't really trying to snag you for a LTR because she really wants one with you, someone way too young for such an old woman. She just wants to see if she could do it. I honestly think the old woman is playing you and using you for her ego and to feel better about her insecurities.

Had she went for the sex with you, then you would've been over her probably after the first night. She know this. I can't imagine sex with a post-menopausal woman could be very good. Certainly not as good as a woman in her 20's. the herpes thing makes it case closed because there's no way to protect yourself from it except avoiding sex with a known carrier. Condoms really should come with an extra piece to first cover the area around the penis to block herpes, but I digress.

You should realize the value of still being young and not date anyone over 30. You'll have plenty of time when you're older to date old women.

This is exactly the kind of advice I was hoping for and the best advice ill be taking away from it. Thank you.

 

[Purefilth]

Freud would love this.



Can you say "mommy issues"?

Why would you even consider this?

 

[Sofomore]

I think I barfed a little in my mouth. Dude I'm 22 and I would NEVER consider dating at 52 year old. ESPECIALLY when she has herpes. All of us agree, move on. If you are not willing to listen then gtfo these boards.