"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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One of my close friends and his girl want to double date. I was thinking of taking the girl I've been with that has very high interest in me. Though there's a problem, I haven't dated her yet. I have her number, we do heavy kino all the time during class.

I feel as I'm doing it wrong still, since the plan was to see a movie this Saturday instead of talking and getting to know her better.

Should I go for it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I personally wouldn't try it, but that is just me. I might ask for advice for first dates, but a double-date would feel like my friend was holding my hand through it. Plus, I wouldn't feel comfortable if my friend and his girl had known each other much longer and were all feeling on each other and being cutesy or something.

If you think you need the help, and your friend AND his girlfriend are both competant enough to be good wingmen, then go for it.
 
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Dude, I think a double-date is a great idea for both you and your friend. You can use your banter to help build your social value. If both of you have game, you can easily use this stuff to your advantage. Seriously - think about it.

~Sloopy
 
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Isolation is the key to attraction.
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Exactly. If you go on a double date, there will be too many distractions, and you won't be able to get the girl to focus solely on you.

If you've already dated her a few times, there's nothing wrong with a double date.

Go out, just the two of you for the first date. Your friends can re-schedule when you've esablished dating status.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by flexion_
Isolation is the key to attraction.
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Yeah, that's true but I think if your game is good, it shouldn't be a problem. You know - sometimes having fun is also a good way to have someone be attracted to you. People seem to keep forgetting that. You're all so hell-bent on breaking down the steps involved in shagging a chick that you forget to have FUN with the situation!

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~Sloopy
 
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I'm confused. How does isolation equate to no fun?
 
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