"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Double dating?

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One of my close friends and his girl want to double date. I was thinking of taking the girl I've been with that has very high interest in me. Though there's a problem, I haven't dated her yet. I have her number, we do heavy kino all the time during class.

I feel as I'm doing it wrong still, since the plan was to see a movie this Saturday instead of talking and getting to know her better.

Should I go for it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I personally wouldn't try it, but that is just me. I might ask for advice for first dates, but a double-date would feel like my friend was holding my hand through it. Plus, I wouldn't feel comfortable if my friend and his girl had known each other much longer and were all feeling on each other and being cutesy or something.

If you think you need the help, and your friend AND his girlfriend are both competant enough to be good wingmen, then go for it.
 
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Dude, I think a double-date is a great idea for both you and your friend. You can use your banter to help build your social value. If both of you have game, you can easily use this stuff to your advantage. Seriously - think about it.

~Sloopy
 
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Isolation is the key to attraction.
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Exactly. If you go on a double date, there will be too many distractions, and you won't be able to get the girl to focus solely on you.

If you've already dated her a few times, there's nothing wrong with a double date.

Go out, just the two of you for the first date. Your friends can re-schedule when you've esablished dating status.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by flexion_
Isolation is the key to attraction.
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Yeah, that's true but I think if your game is good, it shouldn't be a problem. You know - sometimes having fun is also a good way to have someone be attracted to you. People seem to keep forgetting that. You're all so hell-bent on breaking down the steps involved in shagging a chick that you forget to have FUN with the situation!

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~Sloopy
 
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I'm confused. How does isolation equate to no fun?
 
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