Double dating?

[Vanilla]

One of my close friends and his girl want to double date. I was thinking of taking the girl I've been with that has very high interest in me. Though there's a problem, I haven't dated her yet. I have her number, we do heavy kino all the time during class.

I feel as I'm doing it wrong still, since the plan was to see a movie this Saturday instead of talking and getting to know her better.

Should I go for it?

 

[Arioch]

I personally wouldn't try it, but that is just me. I might ask for advice for first dates, but a double-date would feel like my friend was holding my hand through it. Plus, I wouldn't feel comfortable if my friend and his girl had known each other much longer and were all feeling on each other and being cutesy or something.

If you think you need the help, and your friend AND his girlfriend are both competant enough to be good wingmen, then go for it.

 

[Sloopy]

Dude, I think a double-date is a great idea for both you and your friend. You can use your banter to help build your social value. If both of you have game, you can easily use this stuff to your advantage. Seriously - think about it.

~Sloopy

 

[flexion_]

Isolation is the key to attraction.

 

[Desdinova]

Isolation is the key to attraction.

Exactly. If you go on a double date, there will be too many distractions, and you won't be able to get the girl to focus solely on you.

If you've already dated her a few times, there's nothing wrong with a double date.

Go out, just the two of you for the first date. Your friends can re-schedule when you've esablished dating status.

 

[Sloopy]

Originally posted by flexion_
Isolation is the key to attraction.

Yeah, that's true but I think if your game is good, it shouldn't be a problem. You know - sometimes having fun is also a good way to have someone be attracted to you. People seem to keep forgetting that. You're all so hell-bent on breaking down the steps involved in shagging a chick that you forget to have FUN with the situation!



~Sloopy

 

[flexion_]

I'm confused. How does isolation equate to no fun?