"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Double dating?

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Vanilla

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One of my close friends and his girl want to double date. I was thinking of taking the girl I've been with that has very high interest in me. Though there's a problem, I haven't dated her yet. I have her number, we do heavy kino all the time during class.

I feel as I'm doing it wrong still, since the plan was to see a movie this Saturday instead of talking and getting to know her better.

Should I go for it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I personally wouldn't try it, but that is just me. I might ask for advice for first dates, but a double-date would feel like my friend was holding my hand through it. Plus, I wouldn't feel comfortable if my friend and his girl had known each other much longer and were all feeling on each other and being cutesy or something.

If you think you need the help, and your friend AND his girlfriend are both competant enough to be good wingmen, then go for it.
 
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Dude, I think a double-date is a great idea for both you and your friend. You can use your banter to help build your social value. If both of you have game, you can easily use this stuff to your advantage. Seriously - think about it.

~Sloopy
 
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Isolation is the key to attraction.
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Exactly. If you go on a double date, there will be too many distractions, and you won't be able to get the girl to focus solely on you.

If you've already dated her a few times, there's nothing wrong with a double date.

Go out, just the two of you for the first date. Your friends can re-schedule when you've esablished dating status.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by flexion_
Isolation is the key to attraction.
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Yeah, that's true but I think if your game is good, it shouldn't be a problem. You know - sometimes having fun is also a good way to have someone be attracted to you. People seem to keep forgetting that. You're all so hell-bent on breaking down the steps involved in shagging a chick that you forget to have FUN with the situation!

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~Sloopy
 
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I'm confused. How does isolation equate to no fun?
 
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