Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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One of my close friends and his girl want to double date. I was thinking of taking the girl I've been with that has very high interest in me. Though there's a problem, I haven't dated her yet. I have her number, we do heavy kino all the time during class.

I feel as I'm doing it wrong still, since the plan was to see a movie this Saturday instead of talking and getting to know her better.

Should I go for it?
 

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I personally wouldn't try it, but that is just me. I might ask for advice for first dates, but a double-date would feel like my friend was holding my hand through it. Plus, I wouldn't feel comfortable if my friend and his girl had known each other much longer and were all feeling on each other and being cutesy or something.

If you think you need the help, and your friend AND his girlfriend are both competant enough to be good wingmen, then go for it.
 
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Dude, I think a double-date is a great idea for both you and your friend. You can use your banter to help build your social value. If both of you have game, you can easily use this stuff to your advantage. Seriously - think about it.

~Sloopy
 
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Isolation is the key to attraction.
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Exactly. If you go on a double date, there will be too many distractions, and you won't be able to get the girl to focus solely on you.

If you've already dated her a few times, there's nothing wrong with a double date.

Go out, just the two of you for the first date. Your friends can re-schedule when you've esablished dating status.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by flexion_
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Yeah, that's true but I think if your game is good, it shouldn't be a problem. You know - sometimes having fun is also a good way to have someone be attracted to you. People seem to keep forgetting that. You're all so hell-bent on breaking down the steps involved in shagging a chick that you forget to have FUN with the situation!

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~Sloopy
 
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I'm confused. How does isolation equate to no fun?
 
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