"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't worry and just have fun...(Field Report)

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Corey, Doc and others are so right!!!

Fun is probably the most important factor to progress.

Field Report (super slowly courting, not dating):

Miss nature girl is getting past the small talk, and now has confidence to have a good time! Wow, It's amazing to see a shy girl get so bold! I've been slow, and not outcome dependant. She's really young (19), and things take time, but some things are worth it.

I got to really see her sense of humor last night! So many situations seem to be a devine unfolding!

Just thought I'd share the good news!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So you are head over heels for a girl you haven't even banged yet?

I predict this ends poorly.
 
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marmel75 said:
So you are head over heels for a girl you haven't even banged yet?

I predict this ends poorly.
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Foolishness, banging isn't the end all.

Besides, I'm not ready for a lifelong committment anyway.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just a warning and I am sure you already know this being that you frequent SoSuave. Take it slow... Fun is important but do not fall into that trap of infatuation which most people feel early on in the courting or honeymoon stage.
But sounds like you are happy which is good as one should always seek happiness. Just make sure to focus primarily on yours and do not focus too much of your efforts on making her happy.
 
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Asmodeus said:
Just a warning and I am sure you already know this being that you frequent SoSuave. Take it slow... Fun is important but do not fall into that trap of infatuation which most people feel early on in the courting or honeymoon stage.
But sounds like you are happy which is good as one should always seek happiness. Just make sure to focus primarily on yours and do not focus too much of your efforts on making her happy.
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Thanks for the warning! You'd be right if I hadn't known this girl since July 2015. Most importantly, I have a good understanding of her introverted personallity. She's the quiet type, nobody else knows her. We have a connection.

I'm just excited to see progress on her end, and mine!
 
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