"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't worry and just have fun...(Field Report)

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Corey, Doc and others are so right!!!

Fun is probably the most important factor to progress.

Field Report (super slowly courting, not dating):

Miss nature girl is getting past the small talk, and now has confidence to have a good time! Wow, It's amazing to see a shy girl get so bold! I've been slow, and not outcome dependant. She's really young (19), and things take time, but some things are worth it.

I got to really see her sense of humor last night! So many situations seem to be a devine unfolding!

Just thought I'd share the good news!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So you are head over heels for a girl you haven't even banged yet?

I predict this ends poorly.
 
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marmel75 said:
So you are head over heels for a girl you haven't even banged yet?

I predict this ends poorly.
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Foolishness, banging isn't the end all.

Besides, I'm not ready for a lifelong committment anyway.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just a warning and I am sure you already know this being that you frequent SoSuave. Take it slow... Fun is important but do not fall into that trap of infatuation which most people feel early on in the courting or honeymoon stage.
But sounds like you are happy which is good as one should always seek happiness. Just make sure to focus primarily on yours and do not focus too much of your efforts on making her happy.
 
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Asmodeus said:
Just a warning and I am sure you already know this being that you frequent SoSuave. Take it slow... Fun is important but do not fall into that trap of infatuation which most people feel early on in the courting or honeymoon stage.
But sounds like you are happy which is good as one should always seek happiness. Just make sure to focus primarily on yours and do not focus too much of your efforts on making her happy.
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Thanks for the warning! You'd be right if I hadn't known this girl since July 2015. Most importantly, I have a good understanding of her introverted personallity. She's the quiet type, nobody else knows her. We have a connection.

I'm just excited to see progress on her end, and mine!
 
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