"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Don't worry and just have fun...(Field Report)

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Corey, Doc and others are so right!!!

Fun is probably the most important factor to progress.

Field Report (super slowly courting, not dating):

Miss nature girl is getting past the small talk, and now has confidence to have a good time! Wow, It's amazing to see a shy girl get so bold! I've been slow, and not outcome dependant. She's really young (19), and things take time, but some things are worth it.

I got to really see her sense of humor last night! So many situations seem to be a devine unfolding!

Just thought I'd share the good news!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So you are head over heels for a girl you haven't even banged yet?

I predict this ends poorly.
 
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marmel75 said:
So you are head over heels for a girl you haven't even banged yet?

I predict this ends poorly.
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Foolishness, banging isn't the end all.

Besides, I'm not ready for a lifelong committment anyway.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just a warning and I am sure you already know this being that you frequent SoSuave. Take it slow... Fun is important but do not fall into that trap of infatuation which most people feel early on in the courting or honeymoon stage.
But sounds like you are happy which is good as one should always seek happiness. Just make sure to focus primarily on yours and do not focus too much of your efforts on making her happy.
 
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Asmodeus said:
Just a warning and I am sure you already know this being that you frequent SoSuave. Take it slow... Fun is important but do not fall into that trap of infatuation which most people feel early on in the courting or honeymoon stage.
But sounds like you are happy which is good as one should always seek happiness. Just make sure to focus primarily on yours and do not focus too much of your efforts on making her happy.
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Thanks for the warning! You'd be right if I hadn't known this girl since July 2015. Most importantly, I have a good understanding of her introverted personallity. She's the quiet type, nobody else knows her. We have a connection.

I'm just excited to see progress on her end, and mine!
 
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