"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don't worry and just have fun...(Field Report)

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Corey, Doc and others are so right!!!

Fun is probably the most important factor to progress.

Field Report (super slowly courting, not dating):

Miss nature girl is getting past the small talk, and now has confidence to have a good time! Wow, It's amazing to see a shy girl get so bold! I've been slow, and not outcome dependant. She's really young (19), and things take time, but some things are worth it.

I got to really see her sense of humor last night! So many situations seem to be a devine unfolding!

Just thought I'd share the good news!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So you are head over heels for a girl you haven't even banged yet?

I predict this ends poorly.
 
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marmel75 said:
So you are head over heels for a girl you haven't even banged yet?

I predict this ends poorly.
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Foolishness, banging isn't the end all.

Besides, I'm not ready for a lifelong committment anyway.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Just a warning and I am sure you already know this being that you frequent SoSuave. Take it slow... Fun is important but do not fall into that trap of infatuation which most people feel early on in the courting or honeymoon stage.
But sounds like you are happy which is good as one should always seek happiness. Just make sure to focus primarily on yours and do not focus too much of your efforts on making her happy.
 
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Asmodeus said:
Just a warning and I am sure you already know this being that you frequent SoSuave. Take it slow... Fun is important but do not fall into that trap of infatuation which most people feel early on in the courting or honeymoon stage.
But sounds like you are happy which is good as one should always seek happiness. Just make sure to focus primarily on yours and do not focus too much of your efforts on making her happy.
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Thanks for the warning! You'd be right if I hadn't known this girl since July 2015. Most importantly, I have a good understanding of her introverted personallity. She's the quiet type, nobody else knows her. We have a connection.

I'm just excited to see progress on her end, and mine!
 
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