"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don't spend your money just because you have it.

DiegoSantori

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Don't spend your money just because you have it. That's stupid. If you trade time for money, your money shouldn't be for consumable frivolities. It's not for designer clothes, or iPhones, or a Mustang GT. Unnecessary excess on depreciating assets is a poor business decision.

If you are wondering what to do with it you SHOULD SAVE IT AND INVEST IT until you have a clear answer.

Would you rather have a nicer car "because you can afford it" or a cheaper car, keeping your cards close, and 8/10 of that money you would have spent in investments? I know what I would rather have.

Money is your best bet to earn more money. Until you're meeting needs at such a high volume that money is available in excess, the little bit you do have, whether it comes from a job or a lucky break from somewhere, should only be spent one way. Buy something to meet the needs of others. Spend your money in a way that causes it to be multiplied rather than consumed.

If you pick up a dollar, and your first question is "What can this buy me?" rather than "Can this buy something worth $1.50, $2.00, or $5.00 to someone else?", you're thinking about money the wrong way, my friend.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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speed dawg

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You are also MUCH less vulnerable to robbery if you aren't flaunting unnecessary, expensive 'stuff', whether that's a car, watch, clothes, etc. I've never understood people's fascination with buying the most expensive stuff possible.
 

Desdinova

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I have specific ways I deal with my money. What I make on my paycheck generally goes toward bills. Anything extra I get from side jobs and such goes into a savings account. Tips from my job go into my kid's bank account which occasionally gets withdrawn and taken to my investor. All my pocket change and medical reimbursements get saved for Christmas time. The credit card is a bridge between payday, the savings account, and online shopping. The savings account is for large costing items, home renos, or emergencies.

All in all, I think I balance my money fairly well. It's a system that works well, and guarantees that I have money going into all the places I need it to.
 

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The best use of money is to buy something you'll truly appreciate for the time and hard work put into getting it. Whatever that may be.

I'm the type of guy who would definitely buy a nicer car if I could afford it, but I just fvcking love driving a good car.
 
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