"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't spend your money just because you have it.

DiegoSantori

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Don't spend your money just because you have it. That's stupid. If you trade time for money, your money shouldn't be for consumable frivolities. It's not for designer clothes, or iPhones, or a Mustang GT. Unnecessary excess on depreciating assets is a poor business decision.

If you are wondering what to do with it you SHOULD SAVE IT AND INVEST IT until you have a clear answer.

Would you rather have a nicer car "because you can afford it" or a cheaper car, keeping your cards close, and 8/10 of that money you would have spent in investments? I know what I would rather have.

Money is your best bet to earn more money. Until you're meeting needs at such a high volume that money is available in excess, the little bit you do have, whether it comes from a job or a lucky break from somewhere, should only be spent one way. Buy something to meet the needs of others. Spend your money in a way that causes it to be multiplied rather than consumed.

If you pick up a dollar, and your first question is "What can this buy me?" rather than "Can this buy something worth $1.50, $2.00, or $5.00 to someone else?", you're thinking about money the wrong way, my friend.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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speed dawg

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You are also MUCH less vulnerable to robbery if you aren't flaunting unnecessary, expensive 'stuff', whether that's a car, watch, clothes, etc. I've never understood people's fascination with buying the most expensive stuff possible.
 

Desdinova

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I have specific ways I deal with my money. What I make on my paycheck generally goes toward bills. Anything extra I get from side jobs and such goes into a savings account. Tips from my job go into my kid's bank account which occasionally gets withdrawn and taken to my investor. All my pocket change and medical reimbursements get saved for Christmas time. The credit card is a bridge between payday, the savings account, and online shopping. The savings account is for large costing items, home renos, or emergencies.

All in all, I think I balance my money fairly well. It's a system that works well, and guarantees that I have money going into all the places I need it to.
 

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The best use of money is to buy something you'll truly appreciate for the time and hard work put into getting it. Whatever that may be.

I'm the type of guy who would definitely buy a nicer car if I could afford it, but I just fvcking love driving a good car.
 
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