Its the first week back at university and in less than a 24 hour period, I slept with 2 different girls, and 3 within the week. All 3 were HB 8s in my book, next week classes start Im going to try and up my game again, so far so good.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dont know If I should feel dirty or proud
- Thread starter mtlwlu
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Bro, if you're gonna tell your exploits, then you may as well give in depth details, did you cold approach or did you catch her eye? What did you talk about? How many times did you call? Movie, dinner or dorm room? Etc etc.
Bragging alone won't cut it!
Bragging alone won't cut it!
The first one was a girl Ive been "seeing" during the summer, she helped me move in, stayed the night (you can fill in the rest of those details) the 2 in the 24 hour period, the first girl was a neighbour (upstairs) since i live in an apartment it was frosh week and everyone was drinking outside on the front lawn playing drinking games.
I started talking to her and her roommates, used slight C&F but mostly built comfort up, I pretended to know where she was from, (knew the city a bit, acted like I was an expert) anyways one thing lead to another and we went back to their apartment, she was showing me her room and I said "I feel like im on cribs right now and this is where the magic happens (laid down on her bed) making out insues, leading to the other bases.
Then a girl I planted a seed in last year moved back yesterday, went out drinking and dancing together, hot and heavy on the dance floor and then went back to my place, as soon as she left after a shower i posted this thread.
So all in all one was random, the other two were just long drawn out games that worked out in the end.
I started talking to her and her roommates, used slight C&F but mostly built comfort up, I pretended to know where she was from, (knew the city a bit, acted like I was an expert) anyways one thing lead to another and we went back to their apartment, she was showing me her room and I said "I feel like im on cribs right now and this is where the magic happens (laid down on her bed) making out insues, leading to the other bases.
Then a girl I planted a seed in last year moved back yesterday, went out drinking and dancing together, hot and heavy on the dance floor and then went back to my place, as soon as she left after a shower i posted this thread.
So all in all one was random, the other two were just long drawn out games that worked out in the end.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.