Its the first week back at university and in less than a 24 hour period, I slept with 2 different girls, and 3 within the week. All 3 were HB 8s in my book, next week classes start Im going to try and up my game again, so far so good.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dont know If I should feel dirty or proud
- Thread starter mtlwlu
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Bro, if you're gonna tell your exploits, then you may as well give in depth details, did you cold approach or did you catch her eye? What did you talk about? How many times did you call? Movie, dinner or dorm room? Etc etc.
Bragging alone won't cut it!
Bragging alone won't cut it!
The first one was a girl Ive been "seeing" during the summer, she helped me move in, stayed the night (you can fill in the rest of those details) the 2 in the 24 hour period, the first girl was a neighbour (upstairs) since i live in an apartment it was frosh week and everyone was drinking outside on the front lawn playing drinking games.
I started talking to her and her roommates, used slight C&F but mostly built comfort up, I pretended to know where she was from, (knew the city a bit, acted like I was an expert) anyways one thing lead to another and we went back to their apartment, she was showing me her room and I said "I feel like im on cribs right now and this is where the magic happens (laid down on her bed) making out insues, leading to the other bases.
Then a girl I planted a seed in last year moved back yesterday, went out drinking and dancing together, hot and heavy on the dance floor and then went back to my place, as soon as she left after a shower i posted this thread.
So all in all one was random, the other two were just long drawn out games that worked out in the end.
I started talking to her and her roommates, used slight C&F but mostly built comfort up, I pretended to know where she was from, (knew the city a bit, acted like I was an expert) anyways one thing lead to another and we went back to their apartment, she was showing me her room and I said "I feel like im on cribs right now and this is where the magic happens (laid down on her bed) making out insues, leading to the other bases.
Then a girl I planted a seed in last year moved back yesterday, went out drinking and dancing together, hot and heavy on the dance floor and then went back to my place, as soon as she left after a shower i posted this thread.
So all in all one was random, the other two were just long drawn out games that worked out in the end.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.