Its the first week back at university and in less than a 24 hour period, I slept with 2 different girls, and 3 within the week. All 3 were HB 8s in my book, next week classes start Im going to try and up my game again, so far so good.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Dont know If I should feel dirty or proud
- Thread starter mtlwlu
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bro, if you're gonna tell your exploits, then you may as well give in depth details, did you cold approach or did you catch her eye? What did you talk about? How many times did you call? Movie, dinner or dorm room? Etc etc.
Bragging alone won't cut it!
Bragging alone won't cut it!
The first one was a girl Ive been "seeing" during the summer, she helped me move in, stayed the night (you can fill in the rest of those details) the 2 in the 24 hour period, the first girl was a neighbour (upstairs) since i live in an apartment it was frosh week and everyone was drinking outside on the front lawn playing drinking games.
I started talking to her and her roommates, used slight C&F but mostly built comfort up, I pretended to know where she was from, (knew the city a bit, acted like I was an expert) anyways one thing lead to another and we went back to their apartment, she was showing me her room and I said "I feel like im on cribs right now and this is where the magic happens (laid down on her bed) making out insues, leading to the other bases.
Then a girl I planted a seed in last year moved back yesterday, went out drinking and dancing together, hot and heavy on the dance floor and then went back to my place, as soon as she left after a shower i posted this thread.
So all in all one was random, the other two were just long drawn out games that worked out in the end.
I started talking to her and her roommates, used slight C&F but mostly built comfort up, I pretended to know where she was from, (knew the city a bit, acted like I was an expert) anyways one thing lead to another and we went back to their apartment, she was showing me her room and I said "I feel like im on cribs right now and this is where the magic happens (laid down on her bed) making out insues, leading to the other bases.
Then a girl I planted a seed in last year moved back yesterday, went out drinking and dancing together, hot and heavy on the dance floor and then went back to my place, as soon as she left after a shower i posted this thread.
So all in all one was random, the other two were just long drawn out games that worked out in the end.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.