Its the first week back at university and in less than a 24 hour period, I slept with 2 different girls, and 3 within the week. All 3 were HB 8s in my book, next week classes start Im going to try and up my game again, so far so good.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dont know If I should feel dirty or proud
- Thread starter mtlwlu
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bro, if you're gonna tell your exploits, then you may as well give in depth details, did you cold approach or did you catch her eye? What did you talk about? How many times did you call? Movie, dinner or dorm room? Etc etc.
Bragging alone won't cut it!
Bragging alone won't cut it!
The first one was a girl Ive been "seeing" during the summer, she helped me move in, stayed the night (you can fill in the rest of those details) the 2 in the 24 hour period, the first girl was a neighbour (upstairs) since i live in an apartment it was frosh week and everyone was drinking outside on the front lawn playing drinking games.
I started talking to her and her roommates, used slight C&F but mostly built comfort up, I pretended to know where she was from, (knew the city a bit, acted like I was an expert) anyways one thing lead to another and we went back to their apartment, she was showing me her room and I said "I feel like im on cribs right now and this is where the magic happens (laid down on her bed) making out insues, leading to the other bases.
Then a girl I planted a seed in last year moved back yesterday, went out drinking and dancing together, hot and heavy on the dance floor and then went back to my place, as soon as she left after a shower i posted this thread.
So all in all one was random, the other two were just long drawn out games that worked out in the end.
I started talking to her and her roommates, used slight C&F but mostly built comfort up, I pretended to know where she was from, (knew the city a bit, acted like I was an expert) anyways one thing lead to another and we went back to their apartment, she was showing me her room and I said "I feel like im on cribs right now and this is where the magic happens (laid down on her bed) making out insues, leading to the other bases.
Then a girl I planted a seed in last year moved back yesterday, went out drinking and dancing together, hot and heavy on the dance floor and then went back to my place, as soon as she left after a shower i posted this thread.
So all in all one was random, the other two were just long drawn out games that worked out in the end.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.