Its the first week back at university and in less than a 24 hour period, I slept with 2 different girls, and 3 within the week. All 3 were HB 8s in my book, next week classes start Im going to try and up my game again, so far so good.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dont know If I should feel dirty or proud
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Bro, if you're gonna tell your exploits, then you may as well give in depth details, did you cold approach or did you catch her eye? What did you talk about? How many times did you call? Movie, dinner or dorm room? Etc etc.
Bragging alone won't cut it!
Bragging alone won't cut it!
The first one was a girl Ive been "seeing" during the summer, she helped me move in, stayed the night (you can fill in the rest of those details) the 2 in the 24 hour period, the first girl was a neighbour (upstairs) since i live in an apartment it was frosh week and everyone was drinking outside on the front lawn playing drinking games.
I started talking to her and her roommates, used slight C&F but mostly built comfort up, I pretended to know where she was from, (knew the city a bit, acted like I was an expert) anyways one thing lead to another and we went back to their apartment, she was showing me her room and I said "I feel like im on cribs right now and this is where the magic happens (laid down on her bed) making out insues, leading to the other bases.
Then a girl I planted a seed in last year moved back yesterday, went out drinking and dancing together, hot and heavy on the dance floor and then went back to my place, as soon as she left after a shower i posted this thread.
So all in all one was random, the other two were just long drawn out games that worked out in the end.
I started talking to her and her roommates, used slight C&F but mostly built comfort up, I pretended to know where she was from, (knew the city a bit, acted like I was an expert) anyways one thing lead to another and we went back to their apartment, she was showing me her room and I said "I feel like im on cribs right now and this is where the magic happens (laid down on her bed) making out insues, leading to the other bases.
Then a girl I planted a seed in last year moved back yesterday, went out drinking and dancing together, hot and heavy on the dance floor and then went back to my place, as soon as she left after a shower i posted this thread.
So all in all one was random, the other two were just long drawn out games that worked out in the end.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.