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The difference between hookups and a relationship - toddC - (read posts)
Ooh, as much as I'd hate to quote myself.
Ooh, as much as I'd hate to quote myself.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
MightyMate
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Yeah show her You got lie and hobbies. Show her shes not nr 1. Shes gonna want to be party of it.
I'm going to be a Black Sheep and post a link from outside sosuave!! 
May I suggest to you all that it be worth having a look at this website;
http://www.tipsforsuccess.org
Forget about the fact that its based on scientology ( or however you spell it ) , theres actually quite a few really good articles here. Its being a while since I was on the site, so I can't recommmand any articles as I can't remember. I saw this topic and this site from sprung to mind!
May I suggest to you all that it be worth having a look at this website;
http://www.tipsforsuccess.org
Forget about the fact that its based on scientology ( or however you spell it ) , theres actually quite a few really good articles here. Its being a while since I was on the site, so I can't recommmand any articles as I can't remember. I saw this topic and this site from sprung to mind!
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Don Juan...Just Guidelines?(long) - mikel
This is one of the best posts I've seen. Absolutely Incredible. This is a must read. (rate this one a 5)
Thank You - UltimateScoundrel
An Insipiration Post.
This is one of the best posts I've seen. Absolutely Incredible. This is a must read. (rate this one a 5)
Thank You - UltimateScoundrel
An Insipiration Post.
scorpio king
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I think this thread should be on the DJ bible.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Its the black sheep again! :crackup:
Anyways, I recommend this site for all you SHY guys out there;
Shy & Free - A site that transforms shyness
Trust me, that title isn't a lie, I stumbled across this website one evening, even after only reading one section, I had my eyes opened in a way I never thought possible. I went out that evening and enjoyed myself in a way I haden't had in YEARS!
Anyways, I recommend this site for all you SHY guys out there;
Shy & Free - A site that transforms shyness
Trust me, that title isn't a lie, I stumbled across this website one evening, even after only reading one section, I had my eyes opened in a way I never thought possible. I went out that evening and enjoyed myself in a way I haden't had in YEARS!
scorpio king
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thanx NHY! keep em coming....
I have just browsed the tipsforsucess.org and currently reading shyandfree.com. I just have to say this are such good stuff!
I have just browsed the tipsforsucess.org and currently reading shyandfree.com. I just have to say this are such good stuff!
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Good observation. That's why it's stickied, so it never falls off the page. One day, someone will add it, because noone lets a collection of great posts disappear.
Shy to Free looks alright, the other site..is too much of a hassle to contend with to find anything.
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This is IMMENSELY Important
Quoted Sections by ethnomethodologist, Answered by Yours Truly.
The Don Juan Bible is the first step. It contains good information, and obvisously, some bad, outdated stuff. That is the number one thing about databases and why they get recreated and restructured. Time.
The Don Juan Golden Tip Album is for any poster from anywhere to post a LINK (or short blurp of text) to something they found informative, insipring or of great use to themselves. It is not under mod-only control like the bible, so think of it as the new bible if you shall. When I post in that section, I place the title of the thread, the OWNER and I've already linked it, along with a short description. That is the beauty of it, because even you can post, and I encourage that you do.
It's nice to see threads new and old be rotated in, but even great advice can fall off the pages into nothing, and it is the whole community's job to post it in the Tip Album, so it'll never be lost.
That is why I created it. I added this post to the Tip Album, in hopes that it will be read, understood and actioned.
Quoted Sections by ethnomethodologist, Answered by Yours Truly.
I'm not about to go rewrite 60 threads of poorly formatted text. I am not about to go and recreate the wheel when existing material exists. That is just not how it works.
The Don Juan Bible is the first step. It contains good information, and obvisously, some bad, outdated stuff. That is the number one thing about databases and why they get recreated and restructured. Time.
The Don Juan Golden Tip Album is for any poster from anywhere to post a LINK (or short blurp of text) to something they found informative, insipring or of great use to themselves. It is not under mod-only control like the bible, so think of it as the new bible if you shall. When I post in that section, I place the title of the thread, the OWNER and I've already linked it, along with a short description. That is the beauty of it, because even you can post, and I encourage that you do.
Indeed. The DJ Bible is far outdated to current information. Only when a mod keeps up with the posts that rotate around, can the Bible have effective posts that can apply. For now, your substitute is the Don Juan Golden Tip Album. It is there where you can tell us all of the posts you think are bibleworthy, and bring us to them. That is the only way the whole community can assist each other in things we find useful.
It's nice to see threads new and old be rotated in, but even great advice can fall off the pages into nothing, and it is the whole community's job to post it in the Tip Album, so it'll never be lost.
That is why I created it. I added this post to the Tip Album, in hopes that it will be read, understood and actioned.
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How To Get A Woman To Agree To Sex Within 5 Minutes - LJC
Or, to be more specific, how pre-meeting works.
Or, to be more specific, how pre-meeting works.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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scorpio king
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well all I can contribute is for you guys to check out www.bristollair.com
its good for outer game skills
its good for outer game skills
avrilishot
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Hey scorpion king thats an awesome website. I reccomend everyone to try this site out.
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Let's take a look into why we feel oneitis - The Knew Guy
I need other people to post. I'm never online to read anything. Thanks.
I need other people to post. I'm never online to read anything. Thanks.
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The Choice Between Being and Becoming: Motivation for the Skinny Guys - Survivor Not just for skinny guys, it's for all.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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scorpio king
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For the swimming enthusiasts who has problems with the inner game in swimming, you could check out this website, www.about.com
then go to Health and Fitness then swimming
and then Sports Psychology and Science.
I believe the mental game is very important to any aspect of our lives. Besides swimming, you could check out other sports as well. THere are also tips for stress management and stuff.
Just dont go to the dating section. (BS)
then go to Health and Fitness then swimming
and then Sports Psychology and Science.
I believe the mental game is very important to any aspect of our lives. Besides swimming, you could check out other sports as well. THere are also tips for stress management and stuff.
Just dont go to the dating section. (BS)
scorpio king
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.