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The difference between hookups and a relationship - toddC - (read posts)
Ooh, as much as I'd hate to quote myself.
Ooh, as much as I'd hate to quote myself.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
MightyMate
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Yeah show her You got lie and hobbies. Show her shes not nr 1. Shes gonna want to be party of it.
I'm going to be a Black Sheep and post a link from outside sosuave!! 
May I suggest to you all that it be worth having a look at this website;
http://www.tipsforsuccess.org
Forget about the fact that its based on scientology ( or however you spell it ) , theres actually quite a few really good articles here. Its being a while since I was on the site, so I can't recommmand any articles as I can't remember. I saw this topic and this site from sprung to mind!
May I suggest to you all that it be worth having a look at this website;
http://www.tipsforsuccess.org
Forget about the fact that its based on scientology ( or however you spell it ) , theres actually quite a few really good articles here. Its being a while since I was on the site, so I can't recommmand any articles as I can't remember. I saw this topic and this site from sprung to mind!
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Don Juan...Just Guidelines?(long) - mikel
This is one of the best posts I've seen. Absolutely Incredible. This is a must read. (rate this one a 5)
Thank You - UltimateScoundrel
An Insipiration Post.
This is one of the best posts I've seen. Absolutely Incredible. This is a must read. (rate this one a 5)
Thank You - UltimateScoundrel
An Insipiration Post.
scorpio king
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I think this thread should be on the DJ bible.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Its the black sheep again! :crackup:
Anyways, I recommend this site for all you SHY guys out there;
Shy & Free - A site that transforms shyness
Trust me, that title isn't a lie, I stumbled across this website one evening, even after only reading one section, I had my eyes opened in a way I never thought possible. I went out that evening and enjoyed myself in a way I haden't had in YEARS!
Anyways, I recommend this site for all you SHY guys out there;
Shy & Free - A site that transforms shyness
Trust me, that title isn't a lie, I stumbled across this website one evening, even after only reading one section, I had my eyes opened in a way I never thought possible. I went out that evening and enjoyed myself in a way I haden't had in YEARS!
scorpio king
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thanx NHY! keep em coming....
I have just browsed the tipsforsucess.org and currently reading shyandfree.com. I just have to say this are such good stuff!
I have just browsed the tipsforsucess.org and currently reading shyandfree.com. I just have to say this are such good stuff!
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Good observation. That's why it's stickied, so it never falls off the page. One day, someone will add it, because noone lets a collection of great posts disappear.
Shy to Free looks alright, the other site..is too much of a hassle to contend with to find anything.
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This is IMMENSELY Important
Quoted Sections by ethnomethodologist, Answered by Yours Truly.
The Don Juan Bible is the first step. It contains good information, and obvisously, some bad, outdated stuff. That is the number one thing about databases and why they get recreated and restructured. Time.
The Don Juan Golden Tip Album is for any poster from anywhere to post a LINK (or short blurp of text) to something they found informative, insipring or of great use to themselves. It is not under mod-only control like the bible, so think of it as the new bible if you shall. When I post in that section, I place the title of the thread, the OWNER and I've already linked it, along with a short description. That is the beauty of it, because even you can post, and I encourage that you do.
It's nice to see threads new and old be rotated in, but even great advice can fall off the pages into nothing, and it is the whole community's job to post it in the Tip Album, so it'll never be lost.
That is why I created it. I added this post to the Tip Album, in hopes that it will be read, understood and actioned.
Quoted Sections by ethnomethodologist, Answered by Yours Truly.
I'm not about to go rewrite 60 threads of poorly formatted text. I am not about to go and recreate the wheel when existing material exists. That is just not how it works.
The Don Juan Bible is the first step. It contains good information, and obvisously, some bad, outdated stuff. That is the number one thing about databases and why they get recreated and restructured. Time.
The Don Juan Golden Tip Album is for any poster from anywhere to post a LINK (or short blurp of text) to something they found informative, insipring or of great use to themselves. It is not under mod-only control like the bible, so think of it as the new bible if you shall. When I post in that section, I place the title of the thread, the OWNER and I've already linked it, along with a short description. That is the beauty of it, because even you can post, and I encourage that you do.
Indeed. The DJ Bible is far outdated to current information. Only when a mod keeps up with the posts that rotate around, can the Bible have effective posts that can apply. For now, your substitute is the Don Juan Golden Tip Album. It is there where you can tell us all of the posts you think are bibleworthy, and bring us to them. That is the only way the whole community can assist each other in things we find useful.
It's nice to see threads new and old be rotated in, but even great advice can fall off the pages into nothing, and it is the whole community's job to post it in the Tip Album, so it'll never be lost.
That is why I created it. I added this post to the Tip Album, in hopes that it will be read, understood and actioned.
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How To Get A Woman To Agree To Sex Within 5 Minutes - LJC
Or, to be more specific, how pre-meeting works.
Or, to be more specific, how pre-meeting works.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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scorpio king
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well all I can contribute is for you guys to check out www.bristollair.com
its good for outer game skills
its good for outer game skills
avrilishot
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Hey scorpion king thats an awesome website. I reccomend everyone to try this site out.
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Let's take a look into why we feel oneitis - The Knew Guy
I need other people to post. I'm never online to read anything. Thanks.
I need other people to post. I'm never online to read anything. Thanks.
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The Choice Between Being and Becoming: Motivation for the Skinny Guys - Survivor Not just for skinny guys, it's for all.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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scorpio king
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For the swimming enthusiasts who has problems with the inner game in swimming, you could check out this website, www.about.com
then go to Health and Fitness then swimming
and then Sports Psychology and Science.
I believe the mental game is very important to any aspect of our lives. Besides swimming, you could check out other sports as well. THere are also tips for stress management and stuff.
Just dont go to the dating section. (BS)
then go to Health and Fitness then swimming
and then Sports Psychology and Science.
I believe the mental game is very important to any aspect of our lives. Besides swimming, you could check out other sports as well. THere are also tips for stress management and stuff.
Just dont go to the dating section. (BS)
scorpio king
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.