"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok I am going to give you all the story in a nutshell.....The way it begun was.....I broke up with my girlfriend (for my own personal reasons) also note that this was before i knew about so suave.... then i relised that i wanted her back....so when i attempted to get her back a year later, she was dating a senior...and she is a freshman, at first it seemed like alot to take in, but once one of my good friends (bluelemond) talked me back to my sense, i began my quest to accomplish my goal of getting her back( because i always get what i want) so after a week and a half of various djin methods....YESTERDAY, she broke up with her Bf and now im moving in for the kill.............lession learned here: YOU CAN DO ANYTHING if you set your mind to it....no matter then odds no matter what ur brain might be telling you....so always have a good friend (dj) just incase you run into trouble like i did.....GL PIMPS
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by E_ze05
so when i attempted to get her back a year later, she was dating a senior...and she is a freshman,
No offense, but why were you still dwelling on a 14 year old girl after a years time?
 

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ima shopmore....and she is hyspanic so she should be in my grade...but when she moved from venezula she didnt know english...so they held her back.....man she is a 9 trust me u would be dwelling to LOL
 

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she'll be 16 in 40 days....me in 19
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by E_ze05
she'll be 16 in 40 days....me in 19

One-itis
 

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one itis...u dont uderstand the situation..therefore this comment isnt your fault....but what is your fault is the use of this comment...the only reason that yo said "one-itis" is because you want to sound like you have studied sosuave and can give a logical answer back...well guess what i went out with her, dumped her, dated around for a year...then when i saw her again a year later....i wanted her back...see i wasnt lounging over her for a year...ok IMA PIMP i dont have time for that!
 

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I said one-itis because you know exactly how many days until she turns 16...isn't that a little crazy? Why do you want to get her back, just so you can prove that you can?

What does that achieve? Absolutely nothing. Go out and sarge some girls who you can gain knowledge with instead of girls you've already dated.

I'm only here to help. No more flames.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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she has a count down of how many more days online on msn.....
 

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Getting back a girl you DUMPED isn't much of a skill to brag about.
People who got dumped often carry feelings for their ex and hopes they'll come back. In this case you did, and she responded. It's quite common. So you really didn't do anything special here.
 
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