Ok I am going to give you all the story in a nutshell.....The way it begun was.....I broke up with my girlfriend (for my own personal reasons) also note that this was before i knew about so suave.... then i relised that i wanted her back....so when i attempted to get her back a year later, she was dating a senior...and she is a freshman, at first it seemed like alot to take in, but once one of my good friends (bluelemond) talked me back to my sense, i began my quest to accomplish my goal of getting her back( because i always get what i want) so after a week and a half of various djin methods....YESTERDAY, she broke up with her Bf and now im moving in for the kill.............lession learned here: YOU CAN DO ANYTHING if you set your mind to it....no matter then odds no matter what ur brain might be telling you....so always have a good friend (dj) just incase you run into trouble like i did.....GL PIMPS
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Doesn't it feel Good
- Thread starter S-lemond
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
diablo
Master Don Juan
No offense, but why were you still dwelling on a 14 year old girl after a years time?Originally posted by E_ze05
so when i attempted to get her back a year later, she was dating a senior...and she is a freshman,
syncmaster
Master Don Juan
Could be a uni freshman
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Ok she broke up with her bf, now what? What are you going to do about it?
Originally posted by E_ze05
she'll be 16 in 40 days....me in 19
One-itis
one itis...u dont uderstand the situation..therefore this comment isnt your fault....but what is your fault is the use of this comment...the only reason that yo said "one-itis" is because you want to sound like you have studied sosuave and can give a logical answer back...well guess what i went out with her, dumped her, dated around for a year...then when i saw her again a year later....i wanted her back...see i wasnt lounging over her for a year...ok IMA PIMP i dont have time for that!
I said one-itis because you know exactly how many days until she turns 16...isn't that a little crazy? Why do you want to get her back, just so you can prove that you can?
What does that achieve? Absolutely nothing. Go out and sarge some girls who you can gain knowledge with instead of girls you've already dated.
I'm only here to help. No more flames.
What does that achieve? Absolutely nothing. Go out and sarge some girls who you can gain knowledge with instead of girls you've already dated.
I'm only here to help. No more flames.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by Austizzle
Why do you want to get her back, just so you can prove that you can?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Getting back a girl you DUMPED isn't much of a skill to brag about.
People who got dumped often carry feelings for their ex and hopes they'll come back. In this case you did, and she responded. It's quite common. So you really didn't do anything special here.
People who got dumped often carry feelings for their ex and hopes they'll come back. In this case you did, and she responded. It's quite common. So you really didn't do anything special here.