Ok I am going to give you all the story in a nutshell.....The way it begun was.....I broke up with my girlfriend (for my own personal reasons) also note that this was before i knew about so suave.... then i relised that i wanted her back....so when i attempted to get her back a year later, she was dating a senior...and she is a freshman, at first it seemed like alot to take in, but once one of my good friends (bluelemond) talked me back to my sense, i began my quest to accomplish my goal of getting her back( because i always get what i want) so after a week and a half of various djin methods....YESTERDAY, she broke up with her Bf and now im moving in for the kill.............lession learned here: YOU CAN DO ANYTHING if you set your mind to it....no matter then odds no matter what ur brain might be telling you....so always have a good friend (dj) just incase you run into trouble like i did.....GL PIMPS
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Doesn't it feel Good
- Thread starter S-lemond
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
diablo
Master Don Juan
No offense, but why were you still dwelling on a 14 year old girl after a years time?Originally posted by E_ze05
so when i attempted to get her back a year later, she was dating a senior...and she is a freshman,
syncmaster
Master Don Juan
Could be a uni freshman
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Ok she broke up with her bf, now what? What are you going to do about it?
Originally posted by E_ze05
she'll be 16 in 40 days....me in 19
One-itis
one itis...u dont uderstand the situation..therefore this comment isnt your fault....but what is your fault is the use of this comment...the only reason that yo said "one-itis" is because you want to sound like you have studied sosuave and can give a logical answer back...well guess what i went out with her, dumped her, dated around for a year...then when i saw her again a year later....i wanted her back...see i wasnt lounging over her for a year...ok IMA PIMP i dont have time for that!
I said one-itis because you know exactly how many days until she turns 16...isn't that a little crazy? Why do you want to get her back, just so you can prove that you can?
What does that achieve? Absolutely nothing. Go out and sarge some girls who you can gain knowledge with instead of girls you've already dated.
I'm only here to help. No more flames.
What does that achieve? Absolutely nothing. Go out and sarge some girls who you can gain knowledge with instead of girls you've already dated.
I'm only here to help. No more flames.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by Austizzle
Why do you want to get her back, just so you can prove that you can?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Getting back a girl you DUMPED isn't much of a skill to brag about.
People who got dumped often carry feelings for their ex and hopes they'll come back. In this case you did, and she responded. It's quite common. So you really didn't do anything special here.
People who got dumped often carry feelings for their ex and hopes they'll come back. In this case you did, and she responded. It's quite common. So you really didn't do anything special here.