Ok I am going to give you all the story in a nutshell.....The way it begun was.....I broke up with my girlfriend (for my own personal reasons) also note that this was before i knew about so suave.... then i relised that i wanted her back....so when i attempted to get her back a year later, she was dating a senior...and she is a freshman, at first it seemed like alot to take in, but once one of my good friends (bluelemond) talked me back to my sense, i began my quest to accomplish my goal of getting her back( because i always get what i want) so after a week and a half of various djin methods....YESTERDAY, she broke up with her Bf and now im moving in for the kill.............lession learned here: YOU CAN DO ANYTHING if you set your mind to it....no matter then odds no matter what ur brain might be telling you....so always have a good friend (dj) just incase you run into trouble like i did.....GL PIMPS
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Doesn't it feel Good
- Thread starter S-lemond
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
diablo
Master Don Juan
No offense, but why were you still dwelling on a 14 year old girl after a years time?Originally posted by E_ze05
so when i attempted to get her back a year later, she was dating a senior...and she is a freshman,
syncmaster
Master Don Juan
Could be a uni freshman
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Ok she broke up with her bf, now what? What are you going to do about it?
Originally posted by E_ze05
she'll be 16 in 40 days....me in 19
One-itis
one itis...u dont uderstand the situation..therefore this comment isnt your fault....but what is your fault is the use of this comment...the only reason that yo said "one-itis" is because you want to sound like you have studied sosuave and can give a logical answer back...well guess what i went out with her, dumped her, dated around for a year...then when i saw her again a year later....i wanted her back...see i wasnt lounging over her for a year...ok IMA PIMP i dont have time for that!
I said one-itis because you know exactly how many days until she turns 16...isn't that a little crazy? Why do you want to get her back, just so you can prove that you can?
What does that achieve? Absolutely nothing. Go out and sarge some girls who you can gain knowledge with instead of girls you've already dated.
I'm only here to help. No more flames.
What does that achieve? Absolutely nothing. Go out and sarge some girls who you can gain knowledge with instead of girls you've already dated.
I'm only here to help. No more flames.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by Austizzle
Why do you want to get her back, just so you can prove that you can?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Getting back a girl you DUMPED isn't much of a skill to brag about.
People who got dumped often carry feelings for their ex and hopes they'll come back. In this case you did, and she responded. It's quite common. So you really didn't do anything special here.
People who got dumped often carry feelings for their ex and hopes they'll come back. In this case you did, and she responded. It's quite common. So you really didn't do anything special here.