Does the Job I Have MATTER?

[Tilex]

It doesn't matter what you do for a living. What matters is how you present yourself.

A job title just gives her an easy opportunity to judge you. You're playing right into her frame.

 

[samspade]

Fonzie was a mechanic and he had no trouble with women.

Actually it's all in how you present it. I can always tell when someone is bored with their job by the way they explain it. Though at times we all get bored with explaining it because it gets repetitive. So you have to "up" the energy, like an actor who's reciting the same lines 20 nights in a row. Be excited but not in an approval-seeking way.

A lot of women love a guy who works with his hands, AS LONG AS he's not filthy outside of work as others have mentioned.

 

[Mazer]

Tell them you restore old cars to their former glory. Tell them you worked on Richardthefrog’s lamborghini and a bunch of exotic cars. That will peak their interest.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I am curious what thoughts might be relating to type of job?

Due to the education bubble, women mistake the career, particularly something with air conditioning and virtually useless (given thedegree choice). I got friends who are blue collar workers. They make bank yet women are entitled as ****kkk. Women prefer white collar over blue collar. Prefer higher education not less.

Coupled with the fact that you are a dad, meaning resources go to another bitches rug rag hurts you in thr SMP. Not saying, you cannot overcome the following. I am saying that women are savage in the dating market.

Start using pornhub instead of *** receptacle single mom's. Hit on hoterr, younger and thinner. Not damaged goods. Not squander.

I suspect you need a active gym membership and game. If you can step up your game, i think you will be able to better utilise the life you have. Check rsd inner circle and free tour. Do minimum three approaches a day. Give tinder a go. Try OLD but as part of your funnel. Focus on GAME as in, getting baeeeees IRL. Cold approach. Begin however you may. I find it helps to hit on girls the way you would have following several times after smashing. RAW!


Repeat till dead. I recommend implying the chick is in college to best vet JAIL BAIT LULz srs!

Op, a wise man once said, new girls are turning 18 19 20 21 every day. Life's too ****in boring not to try.

 

[FMCSMT]

I clean up and wear street clothes in and out of work. I do, however, service automatic transmissions, Diesel’s, and differentials which can leave a bit of a stench some days, regardless of how much I clean up at work. I wear bish mittens so no grease on my lady like hands lol.

Women tend to like me generally. I have slept with many. But when I tell them that I go to the shop during the day, I can see their smile fade a tad.

I am going to school to be an attorney and when women hear that, they do perk up. Hypergamy at its finest I suppose...

 

[marmel75]

I do well for myself. I make six figures and that allows me to live comfortably in 3,000 sq ft home I had built a year ago. I’ve scored some hotties but they always seem to be single moms. In fact, I don’t recall sleeping with a non-mom off the top of my head. I’m also a dad, 50/50, 3 kids, but I keep that life separate from dating.

At the end of the day, I make good money, gym everyday for last 5 years, but another thread peaked my interest.

I’m a mechanic for a dealership. I have been for 20 years now. I sometimes wonder that if being in this trade limits the quality of woman I seem to attract or does it matter? Median income where I live is $58,000/yr. I also own a shop that I personally make about another 20-30k/yr very part time.

I clean up well and have been told I’m attractive by many women but I wonder if the dirt ball side of my life deters the single no kids pre wall with steady job/life balance kind of girl?

I’m very Red Pill and up front with each single mom I date - keep kids out of here, fun and bang, vasectomy, will never marry - on average lasting up to 3 months per lady (or ladies was last year’s gig). They figure out quick that there’s no providing coming from me and can’t be changed so rotate around they go.

I am curious what thoughts might be relating to type of job?

You being "up front" means they know there is no future with you so once they have had their fill they move on to someone they can have a future with. In short, to most women you are a waste of their time.

What initially works to attract women doesn't work to maintain the relationship after a certain point in time. For you, that appears to be about 3 months.

 

[MatureDJ]

I do well for myself. I make six figures and that allows me to live comfortably in 3,000 sq ft home I had built a year ago. I’ve scored some hotties but they always seem to be single moms. In fact, I don’t recall sleeping with a non-mom off the top of my head. I’m also a dad, 50/50, 3 kids, but I keep that life separate from dating.

At the end of the day, I make good money, gym everyday for last 5 years, but another thread peaked my interest.

I’m a mechanic for a dealership. I have been for 20 years now. I sometimes wonder that if being in this trade limits the quality of woman I seem to attract or does it matter? Median income where I live is $58,000/yr. I also own a shop that I personally make about another 20-30k/yr very part time.

I clean up well and have been told I’m attractive by many women but I wonder if the dirt ball side of my life deters the single no kids pre wall with steady job/life balance kind of girl?

I’m very Red Pill and up front with each single mom I date - keep kids out of here, fun and bang, vasectomy, will never marry - on average lasting up to 3 months per lady (or ladies was last year’s gig). They figure out quick that there’s no providing coming from me and can’t be changed so rotate around they go.

I am curious what thoughts might be relating to type of job?

First off, if you're a single daddy, there is no stigma with dating a single mommy.

As for the career - independent of income - it is true that women's hypergamy has an attribute for career status, but this is only as an avatar for intelligence, and thus only an issue with the high-end of intelligent women. And you could lessen the effect by being well-read & erudite; there's no reason that you can't pick up college textbooks (you can Torrent them these days) for introductory-level academic disciplines - or alternatively look at lectures online. You seem to be of an age when a college education was still regarded as the proper life-choice for a career (nowadays, with a weak job market - yes it's weak - and the harrowing costs of college, not going to college could be regarded as a good choice, even for an intelligent person), so that's always going to work against you to some degree.

 

[MatureDJ]

I tell women that I am an elephant breeder. They usually forget about asking what I do for a living after that. Have fun with these chicks brother!

I guess chubby chasers could label themselves that as well.

 

[MatureDJ]

Agreed.

Off topic, I will just add that the term “working class” irks me.

1. White collar people aren’t considered working class.

2. Does this imply that white collar people don’t work lol?

I think it was a deliberate ploy to keep white collar employees from unionizing - i.e., why would you want to join a union? you're a *professional*.

 

[Serenity]

It's funny to me how some guys have the idea that their job matters so much. A woman can't fvck your job, it won't be what's making her wet and it's just not something that will capture her emotions. There probably are some women with ridiculous standards out there, who limit their own choices based on what the man does for a living. I think those women are few and far between, so rare that it's not worth thinking about them.

I work as a process operator at a refinery, not even other men knows what the fvck I'm actually doing. Most people probably just think dirty stupid factory worker, truth is that the skill required is actually higher than for most jobs. I never bothered talking about my job to women, if they ask I'll make it as short as possible and not put much emphasis on it. I don't consider it that relevant and every woman I have met seem to not give a fvck. It's not something they ask because it's so important, it's just a basic question that everyone asks.

Nothing to worry about. Being insecure is worse than the least appealing job you can imagine.

 

[Mike32ct]

To add on to Espi’s point, a man needs to do what he is good at. That may or may not have a sexy title.

 

[FMCSMT]

You being "up front" means they know there is no future with you so once they have had their fill they move on to someone they can have a future with. In short, to most women you are a waste of their time.

What initially works to attract women doesn't work to maintain the relationship after a certain point in time. For you, that appears to be about 3 months.

This is an interesting perspective. I am upfront as to not lead them on to any preconceived ideas that with enough good secs and good looks will ever lead to a contractual agreement that disadvantages myself in every way known as marriage. In addition, cohabitation stakes the same claim. Both leave my children and myself vulnerable and that is something I cannot do.

I didn’t build a brand new house in this area to have a woman influence my family’s living arrangements in any way. I have banged many here in the last year I’ve been here but they know I easily show them the door and they are to walk out of it without resistance or they will be thrown out and not asked to return.

I do see, however, that you are correct and I am a waste of their time, other than the period of pleasure we temporarily enjoy, in the general imperative women generally seek.

I’m not a provider, regardless of my ability to do so, even for a non mother.