Does "No Contact" really work?

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Sounds like fun however I have a funny feeling that this will be a lot easier than playing Where's Waldo.

HA-HA!!! Sounds like a challenge!!!! :crackup:

 

[penkitten]

will there be a wager on this "challenge"?

 

[My Name is Nobody]

I'm back. And I'm over it. She did me a favor. Time for newer and better things. Out with the old and in with the new.

And the new is hot as hell.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

And the saga continues....

 

[MacAvoy]

haha regulated to the archives.

I wonder what KingPin SkinnyPimp would think?

edit: oh wait, we'll never know he's banned lol


Welcome back my friend.

 

[Huffman]

I found this thread highly informative. I can relate a little. Actually I think most of us can.

 

[evelsteve]

wait, why is he leaving?

 

[Latinoman]

I'm back. And I'm over it. She did me a favor. Time for newer and better things. Out with the old and in with the new.

And the new is hot as hell.

Damn....you were still have a crush on this woman?

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Damn....you were still have a crush on this woman?

Nope.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Damn....you were still have a crush on this woman?

Actually, I have forgotten about this woman because I had a hot date this morning. And I have another date tomorrow with a different girl. So I'm doing what I always say to do... turn getting rejected into something positive by finding someone better.

 

[evelsteve]

for me, rejection is always feedback, no matter how late in the game

 

[ARrocket]

No contact doesn't work by dropping off the raidar.
It works by you putting your self out there as much as possible so your not with her BUT she still hears about you.
im currently writing about this in my revised how to be mysterious thread that will be re-posted in beta =].

Beta?

 

[My Name is Somebody]

I am retarded nothing to see here.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...My last question is there ANY way for me and this woman to be on decent terms again? I just want to be on decent terms. That's it...

Any ideas?

You've tossed her number, you don't even see her at work, and you're finally almost over her. Why in hell would you want to get back on good terms with her? Do you realize what could happen if you did? Don't tell me that you need some type of 12-step program to deal with this!

 

[My Name is Somebody]

You've tossed her number, you don't even see her at work, and you're finally almost over her. Why in hell would you want to get back on good terms with her? Do you realize what could happen if you did? Don't tell me that you need some type of 12-step program to deal with this!

Because apparently I have a mental condition and am retarded. Forget it, I wasn't thinking straight last night.

 

[DMSR76]

Wow this was a train-wreck of a thread. Just agonizing. But hopefully many will learn from it.

 

[brian123]

I think NC is for YOU.

Not to get too much into my own story, but a few months ago my fiance broke up with me 90 days before our wedding because she had some sort of bipolar episode or something. I went NC. Yea, it sucked total balls, but I deserved better from someone who I was supposed to marry than a total flake out like that. NC helped me get over that MUCH faster and move on.

With this last girl I've been seeing, I was doing all the chasing, and then I went NC (except when she contacted me 1st) I feel the tide SLOWLY starting to turn back into her chasing me.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

nevermind

 

[FM 3321]

Interesting thread. There is a girl I have a crush on and haven't talked to her for about 3 months since we hung out, I got drunk and made some advances (would have done the same if sober) which she rejected by saying "don't touch me." Her birthday is coming up soon and the lame issue of "should I call to say happy birthday?" is coming up. Part of me says "yeah, just text her or send her a card." Other part says "just leave her alone, you should have moved on anyway."

Sad story for me but it's true. I still have a lot to learn and more to experience in life. On top of that I'm feeling a bit down today but I have a feeling that getting some important things done at home this evening and getting a good nights rest will make me laugh at this post tomorrow.

Anyway is this a rant thread or can I get some help on this? I'd love to get some more insight on what you guys think without making a new thread.

 

[CFERD]

You should take the time an make a new thread and see if you can get some advice, opinions. I am curious how MNIS is doing with the N/C? How goes it?