Francisco d'Anconia
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HA-HA!!! Sounds like a challenge!!!! :crackup:MacAvoy said:
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Does "No Contact" really work?
- Thread starter My Name is Nobody
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
penkitten
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will there be a wager on this "challenge"?
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I'm back. And I'm over it. She did me a favor. Time for newer and better things. Out with the old and in with the new.
And the new is hot as hell.
And the new is hot as hell.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
And the saga continues.... 
MacAvoy
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haha regulated to the archives.
I wonder what KingPin SkinnyPimp would think?
edit: oh wait, we'll never know he's banned lol
Welcome back my friend.
I wonder what KingPin SkinnyPimp would think?
edit: oh wait, we'll never know he's banned lol
Welcome back my friend.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
evelsteve
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wait, why is he leaving?
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Latinoman said:
Nope.
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Latinoman said:
Actually, I have forgotten about this woman because I had a hot date this morning. And I have another date tomorrow with a different girl. So I'm doing what I always say to do... turn getting rejected into something positive by finding someone better.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
evelsteve
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for me, rejection is always feedback, no matter how late in the game
ARrocket
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Beta?oldschooler said:
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I am retarded nothing to see here.
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Francisco d'Anconia
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You've tossed her number, you don't even see her at work, and you're finally almost over her. Why in hell would you want to get back on good terms with her? Do you realize what could happen if you did? Don't tell me that you need some type of 12-step program to deal with this!My Name is Somebody said:
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Because apparently I have a mental condition and am retarded. Forget it, I wasn't thinking straight last night.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
DMSR76
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Wow this was a train-wreck of a thread. Just agonizing. But hopefully many will learn from it.
I think NC is for YOU.
Not to get too much into my own story, but a few months ago my fiance broke up with me 90 days before our wedding because she had some sort of bipolar episode or something. I went NC. Yea, it sucked total balls, but I deserved better from someone who I was supposed to marry than a total flake out like that. NC helped me get over that MUCH faster and move on.
With this last girl I've been seeing, I was doing all the chasing, and then I went NC (except when she contacted me 1st) I feel the tide SLOWLY starting to turn back into her chasing me.
Not to get too much into my own story, but a few months ago my fiance broke up with me 90 days before our wedding because she had some sort of bipolar episode or something. I went NC. Yea, it sucked total balls, but I deserved better from someone who I was supposed to marry than a total flake out like that. NC helped me get over that MUCH faster and move on.
With this last girl I've been seeing, I was doing all the chasing, and then I went NC (except when she contacted me 1st) I feel the tide SLOWLY starting to turn back into her chasing me.
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Interesting thread. There is a girl I have a crush on and haven't talked to her for about 3 months since we hung out, I got drunk and made some advances (would have done the same if sober) which she rejected by saying "don't touch me." Her birthday is coming up soon and the lame issue of "should I call to say happy birthday?" is coming up. Part of me says "yeah, just text her or send her a card." Other part says "just leave her alone, you should have moved on anyway."
Sad story for me but it's true. I still have a lot to learn and more to experience in life. On top of that I'm feeling a bit down today but I have a feeling that getting some important things done at home this evening and getting a good nights rest will make me laugh at this post tomorrow.
Anyway is this a rant thread or can I get some help on this? I'd love to get some more insight on what you guys think without making a new thread.
Sad story for me but it's true. I still have a lot to learn and more to experience in life. On top of that I'm feeling a bit down today but I have a feeling that getting some important things done at home this evening and getting a good nights rest will make me laugh at this post tomorrow.
Anyway is this a rant thread or can I get some help on this? I'd love to get some more insight on what you guys think without making a new thread.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.