Francisco d'Anconia
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HA-HA!!! Sounds like a challenge!!!! :crackup:MacAvoy said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Does "No Contact" really work?
- Thread starter My Name is Nobody
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
penkitten
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will there be a wager on this "challenge"?
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I'm back. And I'm over it. She did me a favor. Time for newer and better things. Out with the old and in with the new.
And the new is hot as hell.
And the new is hot as hell.
Francisco d'Anconia
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And the saga continues.... 
MacAvoy
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haha regulated to the archives.
I wonder what KingPin SkinnyPimp would think?
edit: oh wait, we'll never know he's banned lol
Welcome back my friend.
I wonder what KingPin SkinnyPimp would think?
edit: oh wait, we'll never know he's banned lol
Welcome back my friend.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
evelsteve
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wait, why is he leaving?
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Latinoman said:
Nope.
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Latinoman said:
Actually, I have forgotten about this woman because I had a hot date this morning. And I have another date tomorrow with a different girl. So I'm doing what I always say to do... turn getting rejected into something positive by finding someone better.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
evelsteve
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for me, rejection is always feedback, no matter how late in the game
ARrocket
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Beta?oldschooler said:
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I am retarded nothing to see here.
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Francisco d'Anconia
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You've tossed her number, you don't even see her at work, and you're finally almost over her. Why in hell would you want to get back on good terms with her? Do you realize what could happen if you did? Don't tell me that you need some type of 12-step program to deal with this!My Name is Somebody said:
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Because apparently I have a mental condition and am retarded. Forget it, I wasn't thinking straight last night.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DMSR76
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Wow this was a train-wreck of a thread. Just agonizing. But hopefully many will learn from it.
I think NC is for YOU.
Not to get too much into my own story, but a few months ago my fiance broke up with me 90 days before our wedding because she had some sort of bipolar episode or something. I went NC. Yea, it sucked total balls, but I deserved better from someone who I was supposed to marry than a total flake out like that. NC helped me get over that MUCH faster and move on.
With this last girl I've been seeing, I was doing all the chasing, and then I went NC (except when she contacted me 1st) I feel the tide SLOWLY starting to turn back into her chasing me.
Not to get too much into my own story, but a few months ago my fiance broke up with me 90 days before our wedding because she had some sort of bipolar episode or something. I went NC. Yea, it sucked total balls, but I deserved better from someone who I was supposed to marry than a total flake out like that. NC helped me get over that MUCH faster and move on.
With this last girl I've been seeing, I was doing all the chasing, and then I went NC (except when she contacted me 1st) I feel the tide SLOWLY starting to turn back into her chasing me.
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Interesting thread. There is a girl I have a crush on and haven't talked to her for about 3 months since we hung out, I got drunk and made some advances (would have done the same if sober) which she rejected by saying "don't touch me." Her birthday is coming up soon and the lame issue of "should I call to say happy birthday?" is coming up. Part of me says "yeah, just text her or send her a card." Other part says "just leave her alone, you should have moved on anyway."
Sad story for me but it's true. I still have a lot to learn and more to experience in life. On top of that I'm feeling a bit down today but I have a feeling that getting some important things done at home this evening and getting a good nights rest will make me laugh at this post tomorrow.
Anyway is this a rant thread or can I get some help on this? I'd love to get some more insight on what you guys think without making a new thread.
Sad story for me but it's true. I still have a lot to learn and more to experience in life. On top of that I'm feeling a bit down today but I have a feeling that getting some important things done at home this evening and getting a good nights rest will make me laugh at this post tomorrow.
Anyway is this a rant thread or can I get some help on this? I'd love to get some more insight on what you guys think without making a new thread.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.