"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Does anyone still have brad80 secret guide?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TheGambino
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touma.akagi
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What a tragedy.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Then I have no idea either
Googled bradd80 and secret guide, the post was in the archive.is result…
http://archive.is/BdgmN
Recommend it be copied to or bookmarked in Hall of Excellence section if legally possible.
Google is your friend.…
zekko
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Hey, you found it. Good job!
It appears that only the first page of the thread is there though. I'm not that familiar with Brad's guide. Were there more parts of the guide on the following pages? Or was it just discussion?
Yes, it apparently only pulled one page with 11 parts. I have no idea how many original parts there were also.
Scribd has what they say is a page 2.…
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
sazc
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My guess is that, since he is a lawyer, his company handles/saw an increase in sexual assault type cases and he realized that his posts on here might be viewed incorrectly. So he stopped posting and got his posts and account deleted.
Again, this is my uneducated guess. I just started a new job and the guidelines were clear, if I visited a site that has ANY sexual connotation from a company assets, that was grounds for termination.
$$$ > ss posting
My theory is that Brad worried his posts here would threaten his income stream.
Atom Smasher
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zekko
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Oh yeah, I had forgotten about that. Very strange.
Papa_smu
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Damn you're a genius. Thanks @sazc
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I wonder why. Hmm.
Tilex
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Probably got his account hacked or someone used his computer and found out he uses this site, so they started posting as him.
Normal people don't suddenly go insane like that unless they hit rock bottom or started consuming a mixture of drugs.