"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Does anyone still have brad80 secret guide?
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
TheGambino
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touma.akagi
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What a tragedy.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Then I have no idea either
Googled bradd80 and secret guide, the post was in the archive.is result…
http://archive.is/BdgmN
Recommend it be copied to or bookmarked in Hall of Excellence section if legally possible.
Google is your friend.…
zekko
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Hey, you found it. Good job!
It appears that only the first page of the thread is there though. I'm not that familiar with Brad's guide. Were there more parts of the guide on the following pages? Or was it just discussion?
Yes, it apparently only pulled one page with 11 parts. I have no idea how many original parts there were also.
Scribd has what they say is a page 2.…
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
sazc
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My guess is that, since he is a lawyer, his company handles/saw an increase in sexual assault type cases and he realized that his posts on here might be viewed incorrectly. So he stopped posting and got his posts and account deleted.
Again, this is my uneducated guess. I just started a new job and the guidelines were clear, if I visited a site that has ANY sexual connotation from a company assets, that was grounds for termination.
$$$ > ss posting
My theory is that Brad worried his posts here would threaten his income stream.
Atom Smasher
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zekko
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Oh yeah, I had forgotten about that. Very strange.
Papa_smu
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Damn you're a genius. Thanks @sazc
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I wonder why. Hmm.
Tilex
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Probably got his account hacked or someone used his computer and found out he uses this site, so they started posting as him.
Normal people don't suddenly go insane like that unless they hit rock bottom or started consuming a mixture of drugs.