"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Does anyone still have brad80 secret guide?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TheGambino
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touma.akagi
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What a tragedy.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Then I have no idea either
Googled bradd80 and secret guide, the post was in the archive.is result…
http://archive.is/BdgmN
Recommend it be copied to or bookmarked in Hall of Excellence section if legally possible.
Google is your friend.…
zekko
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Hey, you found it. Good job!
It appears that only the first page of the thread is there though. I'm not that familiar with Brad's guide. Were there more parts of the guide on the following pages? Or was it just discussion?
Yes, it apparently only pulled one page with 11 parts. I have no idea how many original parts there were also.
Scribd has what they say is a page 2.…
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
sazc
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My guess is that, since he is a lawyer, his company handles/saw an increase in sexual assault type cases and he realized that his posts on here might be viewed incorrectly. So he stopped posting and got his posts and account deleted.
Again, this is my uneducated guess. I just started a new job and the guidelines were clear, if I visited a site that has ANY sexual connotation from a company assets, that was grounds for termination.
$$$ > ss posting
My theory is that Brad worried his posts here would threaten his income stream.
Atom Smasher
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zekko
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Oh yeah, I had forgotten about that. Very strange.
Papa_smu
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Damn you're a genius. Thanks @sazc
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I wonder why. Hmm.
Tilex
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Probably got his account hacked or someone used his computer and found out he uses this site, so they started posting as him.
Normal people don't suddenly go insane like that unless they hit rock bottom or started consuming a mixture of drugs.