djjizzyjeff
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Does a DJ ever get introduced to her family (mom, dad, etc.)? Or do they simply only deal with damaged chicks and then complain on SS about it?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Agreed. If a chick or chicks aren't in a rush to or never let you meet their familes you probably aren't the "DJ" you think you are.fuzzball said:i would argue if you are only getting damaged chicks and never seeking a family or a LTR at some point then yea you probably arent a DJ.
Exactly. If you are the type that isn't meeting chicks families you aren't as special as you think you are or are meeting low quality women.SoSuave666 said:Consider the ONLY reason why you'll ever meet a woman's family: to show you off. If you aren't at least being invited to meet her family, friends, coworkers.... Methinks you are doing it wrong.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.