djjizzyjeff
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Does a DJ ever get introduced to her family (mom, dad, etc.)? Or do they simply only deal with damaged chicks and then complain on SS about it?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Does a DJ ever get introduced to her family?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
djjizzyjeff
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Agreed. If a chick or chicks aren't in a rush to or never let you meet their familes you probably aren't the "DJ" you think you are.fuzzball said:
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Hell yea, after a few months of exclusivity do it. Impress the hell out of em. Same with her friends. If you can get her friends to love you then you are golden. There is no way her friends are going to let her cheat on you if they love you. And they'll be pulling for you so if she's having doubts they wont be like "yea, just breakup with him.
djjizzyjeff
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Exactly. If you are the type that isn't meeting chicks families you aren't as special as you think you are or are meeting low quality women.SoSuave666 said:
I find it funny that most claim DJ status on here and act like they are the "prize" but how many of these chicks they are dating wind up getting to the stage of meeting their parents? If not it's pretty telling what types of chicks dudes on here have their priorities on.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Purefilth
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Girls mommas love me. Their dads ..... Umm can be hit or miss. But either way they're polite. Seem to get along better as I get older.
Uncharted
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You should never bring up meeting her parents. If she brings it up, then she's way into you and she wants them to meet you (for somewhat of an approval). If you want to go, then go. If not, push it off.
Mothers tend to love me, fathers tend to trust me. I usually enjoy meeting the parents. Just tone down the C/F to the daughter around the father. You don't have to be a total AFC but don't be disrespectful.
Mothers tend to love me, fathers tend to trust me. I usually enjoy meeting the parents. Just tone down the C/F to the daughter around the father. You don't have to be a total AFC but don't be disrespectful.