"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Does a DJ ever get introduced to her family?

djjizzyjeff

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Does a DJ ever get introduced to her family (mom, dad, etc.)? Or do they simply only deal with damaged chicks and then complain on SS about it?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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fuzzball

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i would argue if you are only getting damaged chicks and never seeking a family or a LTR at some point then yea you probably arent a DJ.
 

djjizzyjeff

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fuzzball said:
i would argue if you are only getting damaged chicks and never seeking a family or a LTR at some point then yea you probably arent a DJ.
Agreed. If a chick or chicks aren't in a rush to or never let you meet their familes you probably aren't the "DJ" you think you are.
 

gravityeyelids

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Hell yea, after a few months of exclusivity do it. Impress the hell out of em. Same with her friends. If you can get her friends to love you then you are golden. There is no way her friends are going to let her cheat on you if they love you. And they'll be pulling for you so if she's having doubts they wont be like "yea, just breakup with him.
 

djjizzyjeff

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SoSuave666 said:
Consider the ONLY reason why you'll ever meet a woman's family: to show you off. If you aren't at least being invited to meet her family, friends, coworkers.... Methinks you are doing it wrong.
Exactly. If you are the type that isn't meeting chicks families you aren't as special as you think you are or are meeting low quality women.

I find it funny that most claim DJ status on here and act like they are the "prize" but how many of these chicks they are dating wind up getting to the stage of meeting their parents? If not it's pretty telling what types of chicks dudes on here have their priorities on.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Purefilth

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Girls mommas love me. Their dads ..... Umm can be hit or miss. But either way they're polite. Seem to get along better as I get older.

:)
 

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You should never bring up meeting her parents. If she brings it up, then she's way into you and she wants them to meet you (for somewhat of an approval). If you want to go, then go. If not, push it off.

Mothers tend to love me, fathers tend to trust me. I usually enjoy meeting the parents. Just tone down the C/F to the daughter around the father. You don't have to be a total AFC but don't be disrespectful.
 
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