djjizzyjeff
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Does a DJ ever get introduced to her family (mom, dad, etc.)? Or do they simply only deal with damaged chicks and then complain on SS about it?
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Does a DJ ever get introduced to her family?
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djjizzyjeff
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Agreed. If a chick or chicks aren't in a rush to or never let you meet their familes you probably aren't the "DJ" you think you are.fuzzball said:
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Hell yea, after a few months of exclusivity do it. Impress the hell out of em. Same with her friends. If you can get her friends to love you then you are golden. There is no way her friends are going to let her cheat on you if they love you. And they'll be pulling for you so if she's having doubts they wont be like "yea, just breakup with him.
djjizzyjeff
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Exactly. If you are the type that isn't meeting chicks families you aren't as special as you think you are or are meeting low quality women.SoSuave666 said:
I find it funny that most claim DJ status on here and act like they are the "prize" but how many of these chicks they are dating wind up getting to the stage of meeting their parents? If not it's pretty telling what types of chicks dudes on here have their priorities on.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Purefilth
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Girls mommas love me. Their dads ..... Umm can be hit or miss. But either way they're polite. Seem to get along better as I get older.
Uncharted
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You should never bring up meeting her parents. If she brings it up, then she's way into you and she wants them to meet you (for somewhat of an approval). If you want to go, then go. If not, push it off.
Mothers tend to love me, fathers tend to trust me. I usually enjoy meeting the parents. Just tone down the C/F to the daughter around the father. You don't have to be a total AFC but don't be disrespectful.
Mothers tend to love me, fathers tend to trust me. I usually enjoy meeting the parents. Just tone down the C/F to the daughter around the father. You don't have to be a total AFC but don't be disrespectful.