"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Does a DJ ever get introduced to her family?

djjizzyjeff

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Does a DJ ever get introduced to her family (mom, dad, etc.)? Or do they simply only deal with damaged chicks and then complain on SS about it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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fuzzball

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i would argue if you are only getting damaged chicks and never seeking a family or a LTR at some point then yea you probably arent a DJ.
 

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fuzzball said:
i would argue if you are only getting damaged chicks and never seeking a family or a LTR at some point then yea you probably arent a DJ.
Agreed. If a chick or chicks aren't in a rush to or never let you meet their familes you probably aren't the "DJ" you think you are.
 

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Hell yea, after a few months of exclusivity do it. Impress the hell out of em. Same with her friends. If you can get her friends to love you then you are golden. There is no way her friends are going to let her cheat on you if they love you. And they'll be pulling for you so if she's having doubts they wont be like "yea, just breakup with him.
 

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SoSuave666 said:
Consider the ONLY reason why you'll ever meet a woman's family: to show you off. If you aren't at least being invited to meet her family, friends, coworkers.... Methinks you are doing it wrong.
Exactly. If you are the type that isn't meeting chicks families you aren't as special as you think you are or are meeting low quality women.

I find it funny that most claim DJ status on here and act like they are the "prize" but how many of these chicks they are dating wind up getting to the stage of meeting their parents? If not it's pretty telling what types of chicks dudes on here have their priorities on.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girls mommas love me. Their dads ..... Umm can be hit or miss. But either way they're polite. Seem to get along better as I get older.

:)
 

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You should never bring up meeting her parents. If she brings it up, then she's way into you and she wants them to meet you (for somewhat of an approval). If you want to go, then go. If not, push it off.

Mothers tend to love me, fathers tend to trust me. I usually enjoy meeting the parents. Just tone down the C/F to the daughter around the father. You don't have to be a total AFC but don't be disrespectful.
 
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