djjizzyjeff
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Does a DJ ever get introduced to her family (mom, dad, etc.)? Or do they simply only deal with damaged chicks and then complain on SS about it?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Does a DJ ever get introduced to her family?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
djjizzyjeff
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Agreed. If a chick or chicks aren't in a rush to or never let you meet their familes you probably aren't the "DJ" you think you are.fuzzball said:
gravityeyelids
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Hell yea, after a few months of exclusivity do it. Impress the hell out of em. Same with her friends. If you can get her friends to love you then you are golden. There is no way her friends are going to let her cheat on you if they love you. And they'll be pulling for you so if she's having doubts they wont be like "yea, just breakup with him.
djjizzyjeff
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Exactly. If you are the type that isn't meeting chicks families you aren't as special as you think you are or are meeting low quality women.SoSuave666 said:
I find it funny that most claim DJ status on here and act like they are the "prize" but how many of these chicks they are dating wind up getting to the stage of meeting their parents? If not it's pretty telling what types of chicks dudes on here have their priorities on.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Purefilth
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Girls mommas love me. Their dads ..... Umm can be hit or miss. But either way they're polite. Seem to get along better as I get older.
Uncharted
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You should never bring up meeting her parents. If she brings it up, then she's way into you and she wants them to meet you (for somewhat of an approval). If you want to go, then go. If not, push it off.
Mothers tend to love me, fathers tend to trust me. I usually enjoy meeting the parents. Just tone down the C/F to the daughter around the father. You don't have to be a total AFC but don't be disrespectful.
Mothers tend to love me, fathers tend to trust me. I usually enjoy meeting the parents. Just tone down the C/F to the daughter around the father. You don't have to be a total AFC but don't be disrespectful.