"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do You Think This YouTube Car Enthusiast is an Incel?

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He strikes me as an incel. Overweight, neckbeard, bad haircut.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lololol you're a bastard for doing this. Most people are going to say he's not conventionally handsome but I see chubby cheek guys like him with girlfriends when I go out.

The biggest thing is his weight really. A weight reduction and a slight style tweak and he'd be in decent standing.
 

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lololol you're a bastard for doing this. Most people are going to say he's not conventionally handsome but I see chubby cheek guys like him with girlfriends when I go out.

The biggest thing is his weight really. A weight reduction and a slight style tweak and he'd be in decent standing.
This. When I checked the actor in Nypolian Dynamite he was married. Some of the goofiest looking white guys have hot ethnics chasing them.
 

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This. When I checked the actor in Nypolian Dynamite he was married. Some of the goofiest looking white guys have hot ethnics chasing them.
I didn't know that about him, but it wouldn't surprise me. I've seen some things man and have even been in disbelief at times --- hahaha. For this reason I didn't want to be too critical of the youtube fella - from part of the video I saw he seems like a good guy and probably know where the best church's chicken locations are.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lololol you're a bastard for doing this.
Better to be called a bastard than be called a nice guy.

Most people are going to say he's not conventionally handsome but I see chubby cheek guys like him with girlfriends when I go out.

The biggest thing is his weight really. A weight reduction and a slight style tweak and he'd be in decent standing.
I think he's a sub-5 as is right now. Losing weight is the biggest issue but he would also need better facial hair grooming. Hair style stinks too.
 

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The biggest thing is his weight really. A weight reduction and a slight style tweak and he'd be in decent standing.
He'd get better performance out of his vehicles as well too lol

The dude has a good voice, so he has that going for him. He's got some decent potential.
 

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I think he's a sub-5 as is right now. Losing weight is the biggest issue but he would also need better facial hair grooming. Hair style stinks too.
Right, and people have gotten laid here who were grossly overweight/obese. The guy is probably a slayer. He has passion with what he is doing, a youtube channel, and judging by the pictures, he is not vibing an insecurity similar to guys who have no women in their lives. He probably has a girlfriend/LTR in the background. If you are incel, like myself, there is a like quiet sad vibe in the mix and you wouldn't make channels like that in the first place.
 

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All he needs is one of his 100K subscribers that is a chick and introduce herself - but yes, she will be fat. And he still mogs Egg Man ...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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He took everyone's advice: "Just get a hobby, Bro". :rolleyes:
His hobby sucks. Automotive stuff is cool but it's not a great way to meet women. The attractive women in automotive are paid models. Attractive women posing on cars are seeking 6'0"+ guys with big muscles and low body fat.

All he needs is one of his 100K subscribers that is a chick and introduce herself - but yes, she will be fat. And he still mogs Egg Man ...
Most of his subscribers are men.

she will be fat.
His looks match is an overweight woman.
 

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His hobby sucks. Automotive stuff is cool but it's not a great way to meet women. The attractive women in automotive are paid models. Attractive women posing on cars are seeking 6'0"+ guys with big muscles and low body fat.



Most of his subscribers are men.



His looks match is an overweight woman.
He can get a skinny one too, methheads like cars.
 
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