"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do You Think This YouTube Car Enthusiast is an Incel?

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He strikes me as an incel. Overweight, neckbeard, bad haircut.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lololol you're a bastard for doing this. Most people are going to say he's not conventionally handsome but I see chubby cheek guys like him with girlfriends when I go out.

The biggest thing is his weight really. A weight reduction and a slight style tweak and he'd be in decent standing.
 
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IKO69 said:
lololol you're a bastard for doing this. Most people are going to say he's not conventionally handsome but I see chubby cheek guys like him with girlfriends when I go out.

The biggest thing is his weight really. A weight reduction and a slight style tweak and he'd be in decent standing.
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This. When I checked the actor in Nypolian Dynamite he was married. Some of the goofiest looking white guys have hot ethnics chasing them.
 
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corrector said:
This. When I checked the actor in Nypolian Dynamite he was married. Some of the goofiest looking white guys have hot ethnics chasing them.
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I didn't know that about him, but it wouldn't surprise me. I've seen some things man and have even been in disbelief at times --- hahaha. For this reason I didn't want to be too critical of the youtube fella - from part of the video I saw he seems like a good guy and probably know where the best church's chicken locations are.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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IKO69 said:
lololol you're a bastard for doing this.
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Better to be called a bastard than be called a nice guy.

IKO69 said:
Most people are going to say he's not conventionally handsome but I see chubby cheek guys like him with girlfriends when I go out.

The biggest thing is his weight really. A weight reduction and a slight style tweak and he'd be in decent standing.
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I think he's a sub-5 as is right now. Losing weight is the biggest issue but he would also need better facial hair grooming. Hair style stinks too.
 
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IKO69 said:
The biggest thing is his weight really. A weight reduction and a slight style tweak and he'd be in decent standing.
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He'd get better performance out of his vehicles as well too lol

The dude has a good voice, so he has that going for him. He's got some decent potential.
 
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SW15 said:
I think he's a sub-5 as is right now. Losing weight is the biggest issue but he would also need better facial hair grooming. Hair style stinks too.
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Right, and people have gotten laid here who were grossly overweight/obese. The guy is probably a slayer. He has passion with what he is doing, a youtube channel, and judging by the pictures, he is not vibing an insecurity similar to guys who have no women in their lives. He probably has a girlfriend/LTR in the background. If you are incel, like myself, there is a like quiet sad vibe in the mix and you wouldn't make channels like that in the first place.
 
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All he needs is one of his 100K subscribers that is a chick and introduce herself - but yes, she will be fat. And he still mogs Egg Man ...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MatureDJ said:
He took everyone's advice: "Just get a hobby, Bro". :rolleyes:
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His hobby sucks. Automotive stuff is cool but it's not a great way to meet women. The attractive women in automotive are paid models. Attractive women posing on cars are seeking 6'0"+ guys with big muscles and low body fat.

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All he needs is one of his 100K subscribers that is a chick and introduce herself - but yes, she will be fat. And he still mogs Egg Man ...
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Most of his subscribers are men.

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she will be fat.
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His looks match is an overweight woman.
 
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SW15 said:
His hobby sucks. Automotive stuff is cool but it's not a great way to meet women. The attractive women in automotive are paid models. Attractive women posing on cars are seeking 6'0"+ guys with big muscles and low body fat.



Most of his subscribers are men.



His looks match is an overweight woman.
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He can get a skinny one too, methheads like cars.
 
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