"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Do You Think This YouTube Car Enthusiast is an Incel?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
IKO69
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The biggest thing is his weight really. A weight reduction and a slight style tweak and he'd be in decent standing.
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This. When I checked the actor in Nypolian Dynamite he was married. Some of the goofiest looking white guys have hot ethnics chasing them.
IKO69
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I didn't know that about him, but it wouldn't surprise me. I've seen some things man and have even been in disbelief at times --- hahaha. For this reason I didn't want to be too critical of the youtube fella - from part of the video I saw he seems like a good guy and probably know where the best church's chicken locations are.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Better to be called a bastard than be called a nice guy.
I think he's a sub-5 as is right now. Losing weight is the biggest issue but he would also need better facial hair grooming. Hair style stinks too.
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He'd get better performance out of his vehicles as well too lol
The dude has a good voice, so he has that going for him. He's got some decent potential.
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Right, and people have gotten laid here who were grossly overweight/obese. The guy is probably a slayer. He has passion with what he is doing, a youtube channel, and judging by the pictures, he is not vibing an insecurity similar to guys who have no women in their lives. He probably has a girlfriend/LTR in the background. If you are incel, like myself, there is a like quiet sad vibe in the mix and you wouldn't make channels like that in the first place.
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He took everyone's advice: "Just get a hobby, Bro".
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
SW15
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His hobby sucks. Automotive stuff is cool but it's not a great way to meet women. The attractive women in automotive are paid models. Attractive women posing on cars are seeking 6'0"+ guys with big muscles and low body fat.He took everyone's advice: "Just get a hobby, Bro".
Most of his subscribers are men.
His looks match is an overweight woman.
BillyPilgrim
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He can get a skinny one too, methheads like cars.