Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This. When I checked the actor in Nypolian Dynamite he was married. Some of the goofiest looking white guys have hot ethnics chasing them.lololol you're a bastard for doing this. Most people are going to say he's not conventionally handsome but I see chubby cheek guys like him with girlfriends when I go out.
The biggest thing is his weight really. A weight reduction and a slight style tweak and he'd be in decent standing.
I didn't know that about him, but it wouldn't surprise me. I've seen some things man and have even been in disbelief at times --- hahaha. For this reason I didn't want to be too critical of the youtube fella - from part of the video I saw he seems like a good guy and probably know where the best church's chicken locations are.This. When I checked the actor in Nypolian Dynamite he was married. Some of the goofiest looking white guys have hot ethnics chasing them.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Better to be called a bastard than be called a nice guy.lololol you're a bastard for doing this.
I think he's a sub-5 as is right now. Losing weight is the biggest issue but he would also need better facial hair grooming. Hair style stinks too.Most people are going to say he's not conventionally handsome but I see chubby cheek guys like him with girlfriends when I go out.
The biggest thing is his weight really. A weight reduction and a slight style tweak and he'd be in decent standing.
He'd get better performance out of his vehicles as well too lolThe biggest thing is his weight really. A weight reduction and a slight style tweak and he'd be in decent standing.
Right, and people have gotten laid here who were grossly overweight/obese. The guy is probably a slayer. He has passion with what he is doing, a youtube channel, and judging by the pictures, he is not vibing an insecurity similar to guys who have no women in their lives. He probably has a girlfriend/LTR in the background. If you are incel, like myself, there is a like quiet sad vibe in the mix and you wouldn't make channels like that in the first place.I think he's a sub-5 as is right now. Losing weight is the biggest issue but he would also need better facial hair grooming. Hair style stinks too.
He took everyone's advice: "Just get a hobby, Bro".
He strikes me as an incel. Overweight, neckbeard, bad haircut.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
His hobby sucks. Automotive stuff is cool but it's not a great way to meet women. The attractive women in automotive are paid models. Attractive women posing on cars are seeking 6'0"+ guys with big muscles and low body fat.He took everyone's advice: "Just get a hobby, Bro".![]()
Most of his subscribers are men.All he needs is one of his 100K subscribers that is a chick and introduce herself - but yes, she will be fat. And he still mogs Egg Man ...
His looks match is an overweight woman.she will be fat.
He can get a skinny one too, methheads like cars.His hobby sucks. Automotive stuff is cool but it's not a great way to meet women. The attractive women in automotive are paid models. Attractive women posing on cars are seeking 6'0"+ guys with big muscles and low body fat.
Most of his subscribers are men.
His looks match is an overweight woman.