Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yeah, they've been wokifying the military, and that isn't going to draw in the kind of person that is usually the most patriotic. Also, the political division in the country likely makes people reluctant to sign up, because they don't want to fight for what they see as the wrong principles. Next, they'll have LGBTQ flags on all the tanks.The military has gone full woketard at the highest levels. The main body of the military thinks that wokeness is stupid (it is).
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
but in general it is foolish, most do for the eating, no one do it because they belive in the system, also since today most of our work companys want a take even on things we do on our own free time (see the tech companys complaining about "stole" code),Yeah, they've been wokifying the military, and that isn't going to draw in the kind of person that is usually the most patriotic. Also, the political division in the country likely makes people reluctant to sign up, because they don't want to fight for what they see as the wrong principles. Next, they'll have LGBTQ flags on all the tanks.
There are also a lot of young people these days who simply don't want to work, and that lack of work ethic extends to the military. I should have seen this coming, since there have been a lot of posters in the PUA community saying for years that working for the system was foolish and beta. Anyway, yeah, feminism is destroying a lot of things, and the devaluation of men, marriage, and the family acts as a disincentive to serve.
Pardon me in advance. Posted here recently a post about I guess the subject and contents will have to be secret, because it was deleted and I was told it was Russian propaganda. But, I will open one part of the subject, I said there is an army of f@gs -- quite literally, trans genders, trans vestites, f@gs.it got me interested
The whole world including the Russians are looking at US as a weak army and a joke. Allowing f@gs and childmolesters (pups = pedos) to display themselves as apart of the army in that way is a big joke.Pardon me in advance. Posted here recently a post about I guess the subject and contents will have to be secret, because it was deleted and I was told it was Russian propaganda. But, I will open one part of the subject, I said there is an army of f@gs -- quite literally, trans genders, trans vestites, f@gs.
Please tell me. We are being shown and told that U.S. admiral is a man wearing a skirt. Is this Russian propaganda, does my state sponsored television lies to me?
Obviously I know it's a real deal.. The real question is this. Do you know about it? Do you see same pictures that I see? Is it being hidden or obscure from you?
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Uh, I don't think too many Russians think that Javelins & HIMARS are jokes.The whole world including the Russians are looking at US as a weak army and a joke. Allowing f@gs and childmolesters (pups = pedos) to display themselves as apart of the army in that way is a big joke.
The military is about a fvcking serious thing as KILLING PEOPLE and must be portrayed and run such serious manner is it business is.
They totally lost their way.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
well to be fair... my granpa always said 2 things when he was in world war, first he never understood why italians(who leave they country) tried to look like they had courage, he only saw they backs, and then US soldiers was cowards, the simple fact he would take his knife was enough to make then be afraidThe whole world including the Russians are looking at US as a weak army and a joke. Allowing f@gs and childmolesters (pups = pedos) to display themselves as apart of the army in that way is a big joke.
The military is about a fvcking serious thing as KILLING PEOPLE and must be portrayed and run such serious manner is it business is.
They totally lost their way.
I would ask if its really a guy first, some are really not easy to define.....Pardon me in advance. Posted here recently a post about I guess the subject and contents will have to be secret, because it was deleted and I was told it was Russian propaganda. But, I will open one part of the subject, I said there is an army of f@gs -- quite literally, trans genders, trans vestites, f@gs.
Please tell me. We are being shown and told that U.S. admiral is a man wearing a skirt. Is this Russian propaganda, does my state sponsored television lies to me?
Obviously I know it's a real deal.. The real question is this. Do you know about it? Do you see same pictures that I see? Is it being hidden or obscure from you?
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Doesn't matter and don't make the mistake of thinking of that do not have the same or equivalent?Uh, I don't think too many Russians think that Javelins & HIMARS are jokes.![]()
They are all just spreading "THE MESSAGE" agenda or propaganda if you will.main reason most people today in whole world, don't belive in the media, and prefer to belive in what app msg, everyone know the media will spin any tale as long its paid, truth be damned
I dont play that. Why is there always an assumption that someone is wasting their time unproductively if they are not seeing anyone?Too many incels playing dungeons and dragons and pokemon
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
It's a cheap ego boost for the assuming party.I dont play that. Why is there always an assumption that someone is wasting their time unproductively if they are not seeing anyone?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.